(Closed) Anybody who can be nice and help me out?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

No one can tell you that you’re not ready, they can only make assumptions based on the information that you’ve provided.

I hope everything works out for you.  I wouldn’t personally be bothered by the opinions of complete strangers, but that’s just me!

 

Post # 4
Member
2073 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Relax and actually enjoy spending time with your fiance or boyfriend.  I wouldn’t worry so much about seeking the approval of internet strangers.  

I’ve been on WeddingBee for a while and have not encountered hardly any ladies who have been super mean or snarky.  I think sometimes thses ladies just get tired if you keep posting about the same thing multiple times. 

But seriously, hang out with the man.  Engagements really do go fast and then you’re on to all the details of a wedding and trust me, you’ll be ready for it to be over.

Post # 5
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

That’s so exciting! Don’t worry about what other people say, if you want to enjoy it then do it! 

Post # 6
Member
1048 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

you said the receipt is for a wedding band?  isn’t that what he puts on your finger at the ceremony?  not being snarky at all.  just curious.  will that be your e-ring?

Post # 8
Member
3969 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I don’t think people were being snarky. THey were trying to explain that while you are in a rush to get engaged, in the grand scheme of relationships, you have not been together that long, and so while there may be a receipt, he might still be waiting to propose. All depends. I don’t think anyone was trying to downplay your excitement, just being realistic, and plus, we’re not psychics 🙂

Post # 9
Member
1038 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@SerenityLove:  Is there anybody in this section who can help me to actually feel some sort of joy about the fact that he bought the ring?

 

Why do you so desperately need approval of strangers on the internet? Serious question.  If you are THAT sensitive to words on a screen, by people you will never meet, then maybe posting on a message board might not be right for you. 

 

And I’m sorry…you can’t dictate what people post to you.  The beauty of this place is it is women from all over. Different ages, different places in life, different backgrounds. That means different opinions on things, and sometimes those opinions may differ from yours.  Which can be great in seeing a different perspective to an issue you have that you may not have thought of.   I really hope you find the happiness you are seeking. 

Post # 12
Member
1595 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

lol and with that I am signing off……..night bees/good luck oP.

Post # 14
Member
1048 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

it’s hard to be excited for you based on your previous posts.  you came across as a petulant child throwing a tantrum because you haven’t gotten what you want and people aren’t responding to you the way you want.  that is extremely immature.  i expect you are seeking approval on this forum because your friends and (obviously) family are tired of hearing about it.  bees aren’t responding like this for no reason.  you’ve left a sour taste in most everyones mouth and it’s not easy to overlook that kind of behavior.  we’re generally a positive group but you really sound like Veruca Salt.

Post # 15
Member
2589 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

oh hun…  this is making me sad. Why do you care so much what a bunch of strangers on a wedding website think?

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