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@esqbee: Oh great! Well I just want to know how you went about it in the beginning and what not to do. Right now we've just been to some open houses, but I want to talk to a real estate agent about our options, but I don't know who to contact and what that would mean.
hey! i'm a real estate junkie but currently just a renter. the only tips i can give you are:
* Check how much financing is allowed. Some co-ops only allow 20% financing - meaning you'd need to put 80% down. Which is just insane.
* Factor in maintance costs. Many co-ops and condos have VERY high maintance costs. Make sure to factor this in to your monthly budget.
* A good place to start your search is CitiHabitats and NY Times. I browse there all the time.
Where do you want to buy? How big of a place do you want?
Also factor in property taxes! This is the main reason that DH and I aren't buying anything yet. They can change drastically in short periods of time (like go way up!) and you're stuck with it.
@JrzyGurl: To add to this www.streeteasy.com is also really good. It has a calculator at the bottom with figures out your monthly payments for you including mortgage, maintenance, and taxes.
@JrzyGurl: Thanks!! Yes I would be putting at least 80% down. I don't know where or how big yet.. And I am well aware of the darn maintenance costs, ugh!
Right now I'm ready to ask some real questions, but since I don't know where, how big, etc. I don't really know who to turn to. I want to make sure I'm considering everything I need to consider since I will be dumping all of our money and probably our first born child into the purchase :)
This is a great site to read, if you're not already on it!
Also here:
I was not totally positive that i wanted to (or could afford to!) buy at first, so i just started visiting open houses. I went to several a day on the weekends for a few weeks to get an idea of what was out there in my price range. I also looked a LOT on the NY times website - their real estate section is awesome.
I did not contact a real estate agent, and i don't really recommend doing so. In my personal opinion, contrary to their role, they don't tend to have your best interests at heart and are more concerned with pushing a sale so they can get their commission. Instead, i looked on my own. When you go to open houses, you have to sign in, and that's actually how i got a broker (the broker at an open house sent me to another open house, and i ended up buying that apt so she became my broker). All that said, real estate agents' websites can be really helpful in gathering info about the buying process.
During the process, the mortgage broker was my go to person, not the real estate agent. She fielded all of my questions (even the stupid ones) and made me feel very comfortable with the process. In my opinion, the mortgage broker is way more important right now especially, given that the banks have tightened up so much on requirements.
I looked exclusively at coops over condos because they are such a great deal. you dont have to pay real estate taxes (though you indirectly pay a portion of the building's taxes through your maintenance), but you get to deduct 50% of your maintenance on your tax return, so you really end up paying very little. However, you do have to go through a coop board, and the coop application can be a pain. It was totally worth it though, i love owning!
OK, i've written a novel, i hope that helps! let me know if i answered your questions...
I worked with an amazing realtor when looking for an apartment about a year ago, Carol Breitman - she's with CitiHabitats - i HIGHLY recommend her: cbreitman@citi-habitats.com. She's the type of realtor that doesn't waste your time and listens to what you want. She's really great, I'd recommend shooting her a few questions and taking it from there.
@mrbee: Thanks!! I didn't know about those sites. Ugh I read that article a while ago about the $230K sale at the Apthorp.. life is so unfair sometimes..
And thanks to whoever changed the post from housing to NYC, I always realize my mistake after I post and it's too late lol!
oh hilsy's comment reminded me, keep in mind that you will have a lawyer representing you who will review all of the building's financials for the past few years. This will tell you whether the maintenance and other costs are likely to rise over the next few years (i.e., how much reserve the building has). Even if you put in an offer on a place, you will still have an opportunity to review all these things before you actually buy.
@esqbee: Oh great thanks!! That is exactly what I was looking for. Very very valuable information. The same thing happened to us last Sunday, we went to one open house and was sent to another and that place is right now my #1 pick so if we go for it the open house broker will be our broker. How did you choose your neighborhood? Are there any good resources that will help let you know what is right for you? I'm really concerned about being in a good school district just in case we get pregnant (since lord knows when we will move out of this city) or go to resell. We will only do public school unless we win the mega millions at some point.
@JrzyGurl: Thanks I used Citi Habitats to find my apartment 6 years ago that I'm still living in, I agree they are great :)
@esqbee: Yes I'm slightly aware of all this. I know we can't look at the financials until our offer has been accepted, which makes sense I guess but is kind of a pain - since we might not have made the offer if we knew the buildings mortgage was in the crapper.
We own in a co-op in queens. would recomend the website Trulia when you've narrowed it down the hoods you are interested in. It shows all the MLS properties on the market in one place. very easy to navigate, shows you all the recent sales in the area etc.
happy to answer any questions about the process. what areas are you thinking?
And if we don't plan on taking out a mortgage will real estate agents want nothing to do with us? Don't they get more $ if we take one out?
hi there...
i own an apartment in nyc (and have for 5 years now) and i'm married to a real estate broker. i think they are getting a bad reputation on this thread (though i understand why since many of them are slimy). i'm not a broker btw...i felt i should make that clear.
obviously, i'm slightly biased but if you are a buyer (not a renter) having a broker you trust is a great tool. they don't cost you a thing so i don't know why people think that. for a buyer it's a free service and in today's market your broker would be hustling for you. there are a ton of great deals right now and it's definitely still a buyers market.
if you want you can feel free to pm me if you want to ask specific questions (i'm not a broker but maybe i can get some feedback from my hubs to help you before you start your search). this way you can get advice from a broker even if you aren't ready to pick one or know if you'll be working with one.
good luck with your search! i love looking at apartments...sooo much fun. paying for it and laying down all of the closing costs etc...not as much fun.
and to answer your last question...
your mortage has nothing to do with your real estate broker. on a purchase, they are getting paid by the seller (who has agreed to a certain percentage of the price the apartment eventually sells for. renting is a different story since the renter usually pays the broker fee. Hope that helps.
@moderndaisy: no, real estate agents will LOVE you if you're not planning on taking out a mortgage. it generally means a quicker closing and they get their commission earlier!
I wish i had more to offer on the neighborhood aspect, but when i bought my place i was single and just looking to be centrally located. I didn't care at all about school districts or anything of the sort. I did consider that the midtown and upper east/west areas tend to hold their value pretty well as compared to murray hill, gramercy, w. village, LES, and that has helped me as my place hasn't lost value. There must be resources available about the quality of schools, but I wouldn't even know where to tell you to begin on that! (not ready to think about that) :)
most co-op boards would love to see an applicant who can buy debt free as long as the rest of your financials are deemed adequare to cover the monthly maintenance (which for co-ops is typically up to 50% tax deductible so you get a nice check back after taxes)
Where do you live now? If your concerned about schools the UES has some of the better public and g+t schools. You have to be careful about which district you end up in but I've heard these are the best:
Hunter (the best according to any NYC mom), PS 158, PS 290, PS 151, PS 199, PS 87, PS 6, PS 452, PS 267, PS 183
@MeghanV: I love the NY Mag - but honestly that list is skewered more towards "hip and trendy places to live" vs "best places to buy". big difference in nyc depending on what the OP is looking for.
OP, when I bought my place I worked with a broker at Corcoran who's the mother of a good friend of mine, and really like a 2nd mom to me, so I'd be happy to recommend her if you're looking for another broker recommendation. PM me if you're interested.
@JrzyGurl: Right now I rent on the UWS and I love the neighborhood. We are seriously trying to narrow down exactly what neighborhood we want to live in for the next 5-10 years and also thinking about the time when we eventually sell. So school districts are extremely important.
@marlie: Thanks for the info, I don't know why but for some reason I thought they also got some kind of incentive from the bank if the buyer took out a mortgage. WE might do it just for financial reasons but I would prefer to pay cash.
@MeghanV: I haven't read the article yet, but I definitely don't give a hoot about where the trendiest place to live is at all. If anything, I would find that out so I could avoid those areas. I'd much prefer something quiet and tucked away from any hustle and/or bustle.
@moderndaisy: I live on the UWS too! LOVE it. Used to live on the UES and it was great - but the 2nd Ave construction was so annoying. However - if you planning on staying at least 10 yrs this might be something to consider. You could buy something cheap near 2nd or 1st Ave now, and it 10 yrs the value will have skyrocketed bc the 2nd Ave Subway will be up and running. If you can pick a location 1) on a side street and 2) far enough away from the major construction spots, it might be a really good idea for you. I personally loved it over there. Obviously the UWS is amazing, but you might get more for your money on the UES.
God, I am such a real estate junkie. I don't know how much you want to spend, but 2 bedrooms on the UWS start at about 1 Million for doorman Co-ops or Condos. On the UES you can get a 2 bedroom for closer to 750,000 - 900,000 for doorman Co-ops or Condos.
I own in NYC too (Gramercy) and would be happy to help. I suggest getting bank pre-approval so you know the budget you're working with AND get an agent so that they can advise you about the liqudity requirements of the buildings you look at.
I went the co-op route and for me it was a process of having a large downpayment + liquidity on top of that and board approval. I looked at building that had a minimum of 20% down and a max of 50% down. I ruled out 100% down buildings for cost.
And I found that most boards are looking for an additional 75k to 200k in savings AFTER the downpayment for co-ops. This is so that they know the residents in a building can cover any special assessments that might be wagered on the building.
For example, in my first year my building had an assessment that ended up being 10k for my shares. This was for facade brick work. This was above and beyond my regular maintenance fees per month.
Also some of the taxes/maintenance is tax deductable and a realtor can help you with that.
Good luck!
@ohnyc: Thanks so much that was really helpful! That is exactly what I was looking for by posting this, a real life experience. I know we need to be liquid beyond the down payment, but I had no idea to what extend and what types of things could come up. The whole assessment thing worries me, so I am trying to make sure our montly costs are very low so we can have a reserve fund, just in case. I am only considering properties with maintenance costs under a certain amount and I probably won't take out a mortgage.
@JrzyGurl: That's a great point about the 2nd ave subway, but honestly I'm not crazy about that area. I love the UES, but even with a subway for convenience in 10 years, I don't know if I'd want to live there.
@moderndaisy: I think buildings will be willing to work with you on liquidity if you are an all cash buyer. Just make sure the assets for buying are yours and not gifted, etc. Then the building might not approve you. Every building differs, as you know - but all cash will give you some leverage.
For my building, the requirement was 40% down and they wanted 2-3 years of mortgage and maint fees in savings beyond that. So the liquidty after dp they wanted was around 96-130k. The 40& down requirement is more than average, but the 96k in liquidity seems about average IMO. One building on Park that we looked at wanted 500k of liquidity after, but you'll get that with the prime addresses.
Good luck! What are of the UWS are you thinking of? I went to grad school in Morningside Heights (I'm sure you can guess the school) and love that area of the UWS in the 90s and 100s. I never would have thought it initially.
But the Gramercy/Flatiron area has my heart. I just love it. Love all the action and shopping of Union Sq. All the amazing restaurants in that area. Just a total soft spot for me. Although, I don't know anything about the schools in that area - so it might not be best for you.
Good Luck!
Hi there ModernDaisy!
My husband and I rent have rented in Gramercy for 4 years...and 2 in UES and 2 in UWS. We are closing next month on our first purchase (!!) in Dumbo, Brooklyn.
I know if there's any real estate agent on this thread, they might disagree with this advice...but we did the whole process ourselves without ever having a broker. As a PP said, Streeteasy.com, and trulia.com, are both amazing listing sites to get an idea of what's available for how much in what neighborhood. They also have open house listings.
After you see some places, you'll get a better idea of what you want! Prewar? New Construction?
If you become a member of streeteasy.com (which I think is only a few bucks a month), you can see every single sales transaction in the past few years. This helped us enormously when choosing a building, seeing what everything else sold for, and then deciding how much to offer.
We were clueless to start, but it's really easy to educate yourself. we did all the negotiation ourselves. After reaching an agreement with the seller, we passed everything off to our lawyer, and then it was his due diligence to find out the financials of the building, insurance, and all that mumbo jumbo we didn't want to deal with.
If you're not in any rush - I highly recommend doing your own research and NOT using a broker. Sellers dropped their price for us (because they would have to pay the buyers' broker).
sorry to ramble - good luck!
OH and more input:
Again, I'm sure there are some coop owners out there who won't like my last piece of advice....but if you have a choice, choose condo over co-op. Co-op's are cheaper (as @esqbee said) but for a reason - they have a lot of strings attached. So if you can afford the extra cost to be in a condo, they're much more desirable. Look at how all new developments are condo, or how coops are converting to condos...coops are being slooowwwly phased out because they are very antiquated and inconvenient.
We exclusively looked at condos, from horror stories of coop owners. They're hard to sell. In 2006, my dad who is retired living in Boston, made several offers on small 1BR coops in the UES. He offered full cash. but because he lived in Boston, it would be a "pier de terre", and was denied by the coop. Imagine being the owner! You have a buyer willing to give you full cash, but the coop cancels the sale? We have many, many friends trying to get out of their coops and have buyers, but cant sell. In a condo, you'll have a much happier transaction on the other end.
PLUS, a lot of condos have tax abatements and minimal maintenance charge.
Condos generally dont have the pre-war appeal, so there's also an aesthetic choice.
Sorry to write a novel!!!!
good luck!
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I am looking for advice from NYC bees who have bought or are considering buying a co-op or condo (or townhouse). DH and I recently realized that we are able to afford a nice apartment, but we don't know the first thing about the process. Not only are we 1st time home buyers, but this is such a different market anyway.
We haven't spoken to an agent yet because I'm hesitant to do that until we've done some research. I understand the difference between a condo and a co-op, but I'm looking for real life advice on how to go about the whole process.
Thanks! :)