anyone dh have this issue?

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
8818 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

It hasn’t happen to me personally but it’s very common. I’ve heard of this a lot on the TTC boards.  Sometimes it’s better to not tell hubby that it’s go time. Just act sexy and make him want you without him being totally clued in. No pressure 🙂

Post # 4
513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@mrsw2013:  I agree with Lyndzo 🙂

Maybe try not discuss what happened. Pretend that it never happened. Next month when it is time.. jump him lol


Good luck!! 

Post # 5
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Lyndzo:  +1.

Just be like “hub. I want your penis.” and jump him.

Post # 7
2457 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

this happened a few times when we first started TTC. i had to make sure to stop telling him about all the technical TTC stuff i was doing…. because it made him feel like i was just using him for baby making and that i didn’t actually want him.

now that we have been doing this a while and are going through fertility treatments, he has gotten over it. 

Post # 8
84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@mrsw2013:  Don’t tell my DH that I am saying this, but this has definitly happened to us! We have been ttc since Oct last year and the first few months he would get… umm shy… or not be able to finish… if he knew i ovulating (I track my cycles and use OPKs) so I don’t tell him any more and that fixed the problem. Good luck!!

Post # 9
938 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I agree with previous posters. When it comes to husbands and TTC, less is more! Less information, that is. This did happen to us a few times and I found BD every other day instead of daily during my fertile window really helped and also not making a big deal of it the few times it did happen. Good luck!

Post # 10
2476 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ha! Last month was our first cycle TTC and things were going great at the beginning of my cycle and then towards the middle (when it was definitely “go time” and he knew it) the same thing happened to my husband. He’s only 28 and has a ton of sex drive and he was so shocked and disappointed! We ended up doing it the next day, but he was a little traumatized and then all worried. This month I’m going to be extremely vague about which sexytimes are the important ones. 

Post # 11
2247 posts
Buzzing bee

@MrsMaskatoBe:  “Just be like “hub. I want your penis.” and jump him.

This made me laugh.

It is a really good idea though. Just teel him you want him, drag him to bed (or the couch, the floor, the dining room table…) and get it on.

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