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i have the blues as well i am still attending college 2.5 hours away from FH. We're not getting married until August 2011. I'd like to get married now
i feel blah today as well. is it a coincidence that so far the responses have all been from 2011 brides? lol. ugh. the cause of my blah is work related though... layoffs are on the horizon...
Ugh, I hate the blah feeling. I happen to be ok today but ya never know when it'll strike.
I can sympathize with the long engagement. We've been engaged for a year and we still have 7 months. Not quite as long but still, there's the anticipation and feeling like its never gonna happen! And everyone just says, "don't worry, the time will go by so fast", right?
Where in Jamaica are you guys going to look? I am happy for you guys that you at least get to take a trip, enjoy it! I have been to Jamaica a few times, let me know if you want any suggestions :)
Mondays are the WORST!
I'm still a bit annoyed with Mr. Casanova from last night. After a day of wedding crafting at my parents, I went grocery shopping on the way home, and made him a great dinner. After dishes were washed and such, I sat down to do more measuring, cutting, & xyron-ing. I got an intense craving for some brownies, and asked Mr. Casanova to make a batch. The response I got? "I'm not making you brownies...I dont know how to do that!" After I explained that it was just the boxed kind where you add eggs and water, he still thought it was too much work for a sunday night. Even a gentle reminder that I cook every meal...and even got up extra early to make him breakfast that morning before I went to my parents didn't do the trick...
Ugh....sometimes I just dont get them :(
we are going to the Hilton Rose Hall in Montego Bay.
they have ruins from the 1800's sugar plantations where we want to get married. Where have you stayed in Jamaica?
Oh my gosh! I just went to a wedding there in July! Its a really nice resort, the food was great too! Just be sure to be explict about what you'd like as far as the photographer and/or videographer goes. The bride and groom had an issue when they were leaving because things they thought were being done weren't. The staff was really nice though. It's very kid friendly, I'm not sure if that's a good or bad thing for you. I think you'll like it.
Eh, I just don't feel like being at work. I had such a fun weekend, woke up this morning and was like, "nooooooooooo." ;o)
@MrsCox2B: I'm having a 2+ year engagement. It will creep up on you quicker than you think! I'm so glad we did it this way. We've been able to save so much money and do the wedding the way we really wanted to do it.
I hear you MrsCox2B! A long engagement is tough sometimes. We've been engaged for...20 months, and still have 11 to go before the wedding - and since we still live in two different cities, it's hard to get anything done! I will say that the past nearly two years have flown. Hang in there!
As for "blah" today....after a weekend of shopping, eating, and hanging out, it almost hurt to come to work today!! Yuck, and there's work drama.
@MissCasanova: I hope you get your brownies!!
Yup!! Df and I got into a huge fight right before I left for work... I was 20 minutes late. Oh ya and I hate my job.
jennifer-thanks for the tip. I dont know anyone that has had a wedding their. I wish I knew more but I guess I will find out everything in April when I go! :)
Yes. I am feeling blah. I need to fix my resume and set back out on the job hunt.
I am tired of my mom calling me and harassing me about this that and other, and I feel like she's trying to be her judgmental self about BF. I know she has issues, but sheesh.
Then BF is looking to put me on his health insurance. They want proof that I'm not gonna up and walk away. Here in VA, it seems that it is marriage or nothing. And if you are LBGT, then you get nothing. At all. Period. Even if it was from another state. And the sad thing is it used to be that way for interracial couples too, there's a big section in the state code titled "Colored Persons; Marriage Between White and Colored Persons" where it says the whole section has been repealed. FFS, VA. Not cool.
I'm blah too. It's cloudy because of freakin' Hurricane Ida hovering over the southeast, but I'm trying to stay motivated! I hope working out makes me feel better.
Also, I have no idea when my wedding is going to be. Right now it's set at May and everything is lined up for that, but really, who knows. 
I'm actually pretty good today. I spent all day yesterday with a wine hangover 
so I'm glad to be feeling back to normal, finally!
Oh no, wine hangovers are so rugged!! Glad you are feeling better!
@allisonc: No joke and thanks! haha And my problem is that, no matter what I drink (or how much!), I will be hungover until the next day. Everyone else seems to feel fine a few hours after waking up. Me? I feel like crap all day and all night until I wake up the NEXT day. blah!!!
Definitely blah. A migraine hit me like a ton of bricks yesterday so I couldn't talk to my FI OR my daughter and I had to hide from the light like a vampiress. Got up this morning still hurting so I sent my mgr an e-mail letting him know I was taking a sick day. My FI called this morning and we talked quietly until excitement about starting his new class today overtook him and he YELLED IN MY EAR. I started crying immediately b/c it felt like somebody was hammering nails into my skull...he started choking up....I rushed him off the phone and had myself a good cry while buried under the covers. *sigh* Now I just have a regular headache and I did get to talk to my FI for a while today...but it's still blah...Mondays are the worst =(
@Mrs.Cox - Honestly, April will be here in the blink of an eye. I mean Christmas is weeks away...HOW THE HECK DID THAT HAPPEN??!! I hear ya on the case of the Mondays though. I'm with you on that one. All I want to do is get home to my FI and furbabies.
@MissCasanova - I just want to give you a big hug. That sucks. I don't understand them either. But then they do that one special thing and you kind of forget about it all. I hope you have a good night tonight!
I'm having more of a blah month than a blah day, but it should get better when this semester is OVER! Plus, my job isn't very fulfilling, but I know it could be worse!
Honestly, I have to give you 2011 gals major props. I'm so impatient (see name) ;). We only knew each other about 3 years when we got married, as we had a 6 mo engagement!
Blah is right. I don't think I've exchanged one word with the other 2 people who sit in our room at work, other than bless you when someone sneezes. ^_^ No one feels up to talking today and usually we chat at least a bit.
Plus, as well as feeling Monday-blah I made the mistake of reading the comments from readers on a news website article about Fort Hood. Talk about a depressing cross section of the crazies. Ugh. :P
@SpinningJenny - same with my office too! There are four of us in here and it's been completely silent today except for the "bless you's" b/c we are a sneezy bunch. That's not helping the 'blah' too much today.
I am so sensitive this morning and feel very off. I want to be engaged already and it's really bumming me out. I got into work later than I wanted, so I'll have to stay later than I wanted. I am usually pretty happy and positive and today I just feel like a negative nellie. Hopefully it will get better soon!
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I must have a case of the Mondays...
I am just in a wierd mood. Usually I am happy and perky, and today I just dont feel like talking. maybe its long engagement blues... I have been engaged for almost a year already (christmas) and we arent getting married until April 2011. We are doing destination wedding to Jamaica and going this April to meet the wedding coordinator and see the resort. But its just so long away...I want to do things NOW! lol. I have an overall image of what I want, but its all going to depend on which location we pick at the resort, so I can really do any planning. :(
ugh, boo for long engagements.
anyone else having the blues?