(Closed) Anyone else feel guilty…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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174 posts
Blushing bee

@lilymarie23:     I have a secret pinterst account also so don’t feel bad. My SO told me to start planning but since we are not engaged I thought I would most likely look like a lunatic.

Post # 4
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275 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I had a pinterest a long time ago. SO eventually joined, we followed each other. I had a wedding board before we even start dating, so I figured, I’m not going to let him seeing it, stop me.

Now that we are working towards a wedding, he said two nights ago, “Are you gonna make a pinterest board for all your ideas?” I told him, I already had one!!! He never even noticed. Then he made an effort last night and mentioned some of the wedding stuff I was pinning, it was hairstyles and shoes.

Post # 5
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556 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I don’t feel guilty, because I use pinterest as a place to keep a record of things I like, styles I like, and ideas for the future. Plus, as someone who knows their day is coming, it’s not like there is any “lie” to it. Sure, I’m getting married. It might not be next month, but it’s going to happen!

Post # 6
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646 posts
Busy bee

i wont even bring up the word pinterst around the SO!!! i doubt he even knows what it is, but god forbid he starts checking mine out! how would i explain all the pins πŸ™‚

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

Girl, everyone does it.  My FI knows about my pinterest and while I’m still technically “waiting for a ring,” I don’t care. 

Loony is when you buy a fake diamond ring so you can go wedding dress shopping alone.  Now, when you’ve done that – come back and show us the pix! LOL jk πŸ™‚

Post # 9
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1311 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I don’t think my SO knows what pinterest is LOL

I do have an account and do pin stuff even wedding stuff but under a board: craft ideas or just ideas for parties etc LOL

I don’t care if my friends would think I am  being silly for it. When i notice something i like i pin it so that i remember for later, otherwise I am sure to forget.

Post # 11
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529 posts
Busy bee

Lol I just unpinned all of my wedding stuff because I felt silly! I’m sure I will get weak and pin more stuff and probably delete that too! SO likes to check out pinterest with me sometimes and even though he doesn’t make a big deal about it I don’t want him to feel like I am dropping hints or pressuring him.

Post # 12
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6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

I have a billion wedding boards, and SO knows about them. It started with a ring board, and then just grew from there. I think I’ve pinned something like 1,500 things already. It’s a bit out of control, but I figure the only way I can distill some sort of vision of what I want and what I can afford is to gather up everything I like into one place so I can see everything at once.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

If I can pin for the house that we won’t be buying for another 5 years you can totally pin for your wedding! πŸ˜€ When I was a waiting bee there was no pinterest so I had a secret “wedding” folder on my computer with all my inspiration. Hehe. πŸ˜‰

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I have definitely gone wedding crazy and I’m not engaged yet! I do know, however, that the BF has the ring. Engagement is just around the corner but from the moment we even discussed going ring shopping I’ve definitely gone offthe deep end. He is totally supportive of this though and such a good sport about it.

 

Look at it this way, there are tons of girls on Pinterest planning their dream wedding without even having a SO.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I have a pintrest. I didn’t connect it to facebook so i am safe from screwtany. My SO knows about it. I have told myself that I don’t care what he thinks about. I try not to surf the ring and dress boards when he is around but i do look for ideas about reception and a dress for my Sister (MOH) and my mom, hair, make up, big-day accessories.

Post # 16
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Helper bee

I pinterest wedding stuff on my one day… board all the time. My SO even sees it and doesn’t say anything at all. He has actually seen all my pins. I figure they are a good reference for the ring I would love :)!

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