- 7 years ago
I’m 28 and DH is 30. He’s always said “oh we’re old” blah blah and having a social life, friends, that sort of thing isn’t important to him. He’s really into family, more than me. We’re each others best friends and def spend most of our time together. I don’t talk to my “friends” who were in my BP any longer and honestly don’t miss them much. Thing is during the planning process and even sorta before that I just realized we had like little to nothing in common anymore. Both are unmarried, ones still stuck in high school and the other though she had a baby, has a pretty dysfunctional life, including the baby daddy drama. It’s sad in a way, but sometimes people drift apart.
Especially now that I’m pregnant, we haven’t announced it yet though, and married, I even feel more like the odd one out with people I’m around. Take my job. I teach with 2 other girls, both in college, so am I, but I’m in a graduate program and older than them by like 5 years or so. We eat lunch together every day, one girl I’m very friendly with, she’ll come to hang out in my room, etc. So a while back all of us had something to do up at school and they were both there with their friends. I felt kind of like a 3rd wheel since when their friends were there it became”oh who is she again” lol. I ended up seperating from them. I’ve never felt “old” but listening to some of their convos, like the clubs she goes to, the facebook drama, I had this “wow I’m old moment” as all of this felt soo long ago, like another lifetime. I felt kind of sad even too, even thoung I know I shouldn’t be. Or maybe it’s that I really, really do need to make friends with married people, and now ones with kids since I’m pregnant. How I don’t know lol. Like when I look around, I feel like once you have kids it’s either you are friends with people with kids or you are friends with kids. Sorry for venting =(