Anyone else feeling a bit crap about their wedding?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

well…I know mine wont be as gorgegous as the uplit, chiavari chair, millions of florals wedding but hey, all I want is a memorable fun day with good food and an  amazing DJ.

Post # 4
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432 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@nearly-mrs-R: We have worked really hard to come up with a lot of non-traditional, really creative ideas. Yet, I’m constantly worried we need more, more, more. I also keep saying that I don’t believe it will all come together and be perfect until I see it with my own eyes.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@nearly-mrs-R:  Mine will not be overly floralicious and no chivari chairs and blah, blah, blah BUT I am relying on my guests being dazzled by the B&G’s happiness and love.

I will feed them well, put on a show and hope they all leave smiling. I am NOT DIYing anything aside from welcome bags (if I choose to do that… ugh!).

Post # 7
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432 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@nearly-mrs-R:  Ah, yes. You won’t feel settled until you have closure to that then. I get that, too. I was coo-coo until I got a venue at that. Then, I was coo-coo until we got it paid off… It doesn’t end, but it will get better as you make milestones. Another bee posted some advice about the planning phase and one of the lines of advice was:

“Anything that can go wrong will. People/vendors that you expected to be able to count on will prove anything but.”

Just try to let it roll off and keep pushing forward. FI and I went to specific days on our calendar and said “ok, this day, we figure this out… No exceptions.” And, there have been a few days added to put out fires. Try not to stress about what you can’t change, and use it as a learning experience to make sure it doesn’t happen the next time. : )

 

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