haha, I feel you on that one… I was majorly stressing the other day about lots of little details, and my FI thought I was nuts when I was so stressed about trying to figure out a schedule for how the day was going to go & the reception.
Now that pretty much all the big picture things are taken care of (cake, dj, ceremony, reception, photographer, dress, BM dresses), all the little things are taking over & stressing me out.. ie:
-the schedule of the day/timeline of reception
-where to order tuxes from, whether we should have all the guys pick them up in St Louis or do it at a chain (ie mens wearhouse) where they can pick them up where they live & bring them.. There’s only 1 place in StL that will do a free groom’s try-on for the tuxes, do we order from them even though the sales lady in charge is super pushy? When will we even get a chance to both be back in StL at the same time to even do the grooms try on?
-do we do the rehearsal thurs or fri night? Do we do it at 5,6,or 7? Do we have the rehearsal dinner near the church or near the hotel?
-DId we block off enough hotel rooms? If our reception site has an event booked Fri night & we can’t set up then, who is going to deliver all the centerpieces that morning to the place so they can set it up?
-How are the BMs and Groomsmen going to get from the hotel to the ceremony? Since we’re doing a limo bus deal, none of them will be driving back to the reception (a couple mins from hotel) so I dont want them to have to leave their cars there. Do I try to have my brothers go pick everyone up? How are we going to get 12 people there in 1 trip? If my brothers do pick them up, how early do they leave?
-If the ceremony is at 12, and our photographer will be there starting at 11, what time do I need to have the guys there so they have time to get ready but without crossing paths as I’m getting there.
Sooooo many little details driving me crazy.. just trying to take it 1 step at a time!