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    mommy2adelyn    July 10, 2010   Athens, GA

    Fi and I got engaged November '08. We found out I was pregnant the end of December. So our July Wedding got post-poned until this year. We have a beautiful daughter, who will be 10 months old when we get married.

    Anyone else in the same situation?

    How are you going to incorp your child(ren) into the ceremony?

     
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    mimosa    May 29, 2010   NC

    I'm not.. well I was.  I was the baby lol  I was 4 months old when my parents married.  I wasn't really apart of the ceremony, I was there in my pretty white dress. lol  I was in a lot of pix :0)  You're daughter is older though, ohh you could have her roll down the aisle and stand(well sit) with you guys while you say your vows?

     

    Anyone else have a baby come before the wedding? :  wedding 118026 Main Full

     
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    sweetbeemeg    September 5, 2009   tennessee

    Well my husbad and I had a son together 3 years ago and we just got married last year, He was our ring bearer, In a way I think Having a child together first helps because the first few years are very trying on a couple and id hate to marry someone i thought was gonna be a great daddy (or other characteristics) and then have a child later on and he turn out to be awful!

     
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    mommy2adelyn    July 10, 2010   Athens, GA

    Haha, I haven't seen a wagon like that!

    We have thought about the wagon idea...just not sure where exactly she would go. We're getting married infront of a barn, so it would go well w/ the theme! We're only having a miad of honor, and a best man...so maybe she could just hangout w/ the MOH.

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    My FSIL had her and her now-husbands daughter before they got married. I think she was 3 by the time of the wedding (they were engaged from the second she got pregnant), they dressed her up and I think she acted as a kind of a flower girl without actually throwing petals. She got a special dress and had lots of photos taken and it looked like it was a great way to include her :)

     
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    mommy2adelyn    July 10, 2010   Athens, GA

    sweetbeemeg- I def see where you're coming from! Having a child has changed our relationship in EVERY WAY. Thats cute he was your ring bearer! Our daughter will just be so young, I'm trying to figure out how to have her involved in the ceremony.

     
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    sweetbeemeg    September 5, 2009   tennessee

    Well when my brother in law got married their son was around 4 months old and they dressed him up in a white gown (which i thought was strange cuz hes a boy...but to each their own i guess) and the father of the bride carried him down while he escorted the bride. It was ok, But thats just another option for you, not particulary my fav idea, Ive also seen the little cars all painted and fixed up but if your doing it outside a cute little rustic wagon on a bail of hay or something would be adorable maybe even adorned with flower and she could be pulled down and have her sit with family, Thats what i had to do, My son wouldnt stand up there so My mom kept him while we said our vows, He would  have been pullin on the train of my dress if it had been any other way! Hes a momma boy<3

     
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    future mrs kirsch    July 24, 2010   Ferndale, MI

    I love the wagon idea for a ten month old. Our son will be 13 months at our wedding and to balance the bridesmaid/ groomsmen ratio we wanted to have one of the girls pull him in a wagon. However, my mom (who is paying for most of the wedding) said this is the one thing she does not approve of. It's a huge point of contention so I don't argue further with her.

     
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    PennyDreadful    September 25, 2010   Northern VA

    Umm..yeah.

    Our son will be almost three when we get married. He's going to be the ring bearer too.

    So I pretty much told everyone "yeah, were finally getting around to getting married"

    oi.

     

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