Anyone else have a bridesMAN?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I did. He wore a tux and walked in holding hands with one of the groomsmen. People thought it was awesome. 

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I have a bridesman. I can’t imagine getting married without him by my side, he is one of my best friends and saw me through thick and thin. It didn’t make much sense for him to stand on my fiance’s side since he doesn’t know him that well so he’ll stand on my side during the ceremony. He’ll be invited to any pre-wedding festivities involving the girls, but I’m not too girly so it’s not like we are going to do anything that he would be completely uninterested in.

Post # 5
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Helper bee

Three of my friends have had bridesmen, and one friend had a Best Lady.

 

They just had them walk in/out either alone or match up with a groomsman, it was totally fine.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yes I did every those who wanted to wear a tux did and those that wanted to wear dresses did

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@atlbride2013:  LOL amazing. The fiance totally wants that to happen but i think the other groomsmen are reluctant

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I had two! My brother and one of my best friends from college. The two bridesmen walked in with two bridesmaids and my maid of honor walked hersefl down the aisle. It worked out great!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@busyinboston:  They can link elbows if holding hands is too “feminine.” No one that we knew even batted an eye, not even the older generation. My bridesman was just like a bridesmaid in all aspects but the dress.  You should ask your groomsmen, I bet they wouldn’t care at all. 🙂

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Bumble bee

I plan to!  I’ve known my boy bestie for over 10 years now and he’ll definitely be a part of my posse on my big day. ^.^ I think SO may have one or two groomswomen as well, since two of his best friends are women. 🙂

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