- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2014
Don’t get me wrong – I am SO HAPPY that my FI wants to help in the planning of the wedding – he surprised me over xmas and I am delighted and excited for our wedding.
But with that said – I NEVER in 1,000,000 years thought he would be a groomzilla. He wants a say in EVERY LITTLE DETAIL (bedies my dress) and at frist it was cute and endearing – but it’s like – I’ve got a vision here – we can decide things togheter but for the little things BACK OFF!
We had an artist friend do custom save the dates for us – with an artistic rendering of us (it’s great!) it’s an old friend of mine, so when he sent me the proof I never told him not to show anyone else or that it’s TOP SECRET. Well a few hours later a friend posted on my facebook wall about how excited she was “for our save the date magnets” and he FLIPPED OUT.
He was like – how does she know? and I’m like well the artist friend is also friends with her so he probably mentioned it – I don’t think this is a big deal at all – there are 175 other people getting invited that haven’t seen it – and it’s not like she posted the image – she just mentioned the magnet – which is such a no biggie since only 19 billion other couples have sent out save the date magnets before us.
It became a huge fight about how I’m controlling the wedding and I’m realy pissed off. He’s really stressed at work (so am I but whatever) and also writing a play that’s goign into workshop soon so I’ve been dealing with hotel blocks, venue details, photographers, etc. – because he’s so stressed.
and since he also builds websites I’ve asked him to run that and I’m still waiting for a domain name 3 weeks later so….clearly he doesn’t have time to be on every decision with me.
I’m about to crack!