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    passionfruit23    September 11, 2010  

    I'm just amazed as to how involved my fiance is!  He's negotiated all of our contracts for lower rates, been involved with emailing our vendors about our preferences, etc.  He insisted on us going to dance classes and having our first dance choreographed.  He's obsessing over the best color of table linens that will go with our flowers.  He's all into pinspotting and picking the music and also our wedding favors.  He has also sent multiple mass emails (3 already!) to his coworkers regarding the details of our wedding such as attire, registry, +1's, etc.  I've read his mass emails and they basically keep repeating the same things so I am just LOL as I'm sure some other people who are on the receiving end are as well.  When we were first scouting for venues and it was a tight race between 3, he made a chart with categories and ratings for each one.

    I almost forgot.  He also spent 4 hours tying bows on our 100 invitations.  He was so meticulous about it.  It was crazy!  I am so glad that he is all into this and helping me so much.  My friend's fiance is the total opposite!

     
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    mrsgtobee    October 20, 2010   United Kingdom

    @ Passionfruit23 :-)  Thats amazing, I'd love my other half to get more involved.  We've been planning for 18 months and he's only starting to get interested.  I know it must be annoying sometimes, but how brilliant is it that he's that excited to be your husband.

     

    Maybe you should sit down together and split some duties though?  That way you still get some control and he isn't dealing with that much that he's repeating himself under pressure!

    Good luck with your wedding - your fiance sounds like great fun!

     

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