Anyone else have REALLY AWESOME Bridesmaids?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I don’t have bridesmaids, I’ve got 2 bridesmen and they are being super supportive which is all I really wanted from them. I highly doubt that they are going to purposely cause any drama, there might be a little bit with travel arrangements, but that’s only because one is currently living in Europe. My guys are awesome.

Post # 4
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220 posts
Helper bee

Love this post, really needed to hear some nice stuff here tonight xox

Post # 5
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8425 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

My bridesmaids were amazing!!  My MOH did my entire song list for me (she loves music) and both girls helped me with flowers, baked goods, decorations, etc.  Everything was completely drama free and perfect.

Post # 6
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478 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Mine have been awesome. Like you, minimal expectations. But they’ve done/are doing things like traveling internationally to be at the wedding, telling me they’ll wear whatever I want (I chose: whatever they want), planning bachelorette and kitchen tea (Australian/NZ thing), asking me how it’s going, altering my wedding dress, listening to me bitch, helping me pick shoes, helping me decide on a photographer, helping me with music for the reception, offering to organize food for while we’re getting ready on the day, and generally just being awesome.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - A Beautiful converted Barn

my MOH is truely amazing – she came dress shopping with me as my mum lives in another country. she drove me here, there and everywhere to try a ‘maybe’ dress on, then rushed me back to try ‘the’ dress on again to make a comparison. she never once commented on the undesicive mess i can be!! we hook up at least once a week to catch up on wedding gossip and plans. she is amazing. she is also organising my hen night and a weekend away the week before the wedding. the away trip is a complete mysery to me… other than i need a passport!! 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I love my bridesmaids because they haven’t bugged me at all! I’m the kind of person who likes to do it myself so I know it’s done right. My FSIL’s bridesmaids drove her crazy telling her what she needs to get done, what look good/bad, etc. so I am soo happy mine are just planning a shower/bachelorette party and showing up because that’s really all I want/need!

Post # 11
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334 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

My bridesmaids have been amazing. I have also had minimal expectations but been blown away with the support by them (not that i didn’t expect support) and how much they have done to make me feel so special.

They drove 4 hours with me with their partners in toe and we spent the weekend dress shopping while the groomsmen did manly things, it was also my and hubby to be’s anniversary so we all went out to a fancy dinner afterwoods.

They threw me a hens weekend in the city which is 3 hours away where we went on a dinner cruise, did shopping, hit the clubs and relaxed.

Have helped with favors, invites, food tasting, shoes and much more

And just this weekend threw me a bridal party in town with a 1920’s gatsby theme for my mum and mil and everyone else who couldnt attend the hens.

I’m definately not surprised by how much they have done really, they are apart of my life for a reason.

Post # 12
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6274 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@tennjm2663:  my MOH and bridesmaids are the absolute best.

My MOH offered to take off work on friday before the wedding to help me with everything. I told her it wasn’t neccessary but so glad she offered to help.

 

 

Post # 13
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547 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

My girls are awesome, but that’s why they’re my BFF’s, and help because that’s what friends do, not because they’re MOH’s. Which is why they’re my MOH’S.  I suppose if you don’t have that type of friendship before getting engaged and planning a wedding, why would people expect that to change? 

 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@tennjm2663 – I was just wondering the same thing! I think it’s that plus, I choose my friends based on similar values in common, rather than interests. So my friends are ALL generous, kind and thoughtful. That sounded a little stuck up but oh well. I AM kind, dammit!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

My girls are awesome too. It may help that we are all in our 30’s and so past much of the drama of your early years 🙂 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

YES! My Chief (MOH) is so unbelieveably excited. She even said she’ll clean my house whilst I’m at work the day before we decorate the venue so it’s spotless! What a legend.

Another BM has organised my Hen Do and she’s done sooooo well! I’m so excited!!

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