Post # 1
Just curious, does anyone else have anxiety/trouble sleeping because of “waiting”? I just had yet another sleepness night last night because I just could NOT turn off my freakin’ brain! We had a talk a while back, and I laid EVERYTHING on the table. He knows how I feel, and that I want to start discussing our future and mutual timeline. I’ve been trying to be more positive, and I’m giving him his space and time to think, with pushing or nagging. Well, since I hit the ball into his court, and I waiting for him, I’ve been sooo touchy with sleep!
Post # 3
Really wow, I’ve never had trouble sleeping and I’m waiting too. Just try and relax, without being insenitive it’s not worth losing sleep over it’ll happen when it happens.
Post # 4
OOPS!…meant to say “I’m giving him his space and time to think, WITHOUT pushing or nagging”…
@Soon2BD-CBee: i know it’s not worth losing sleep over, and the rational part of me tells me that…For some reason, and maybe it was turning 30, I’ve just had this “I NEED to know where this is going” feeling non-stop! Thanks for your input! 🙂
Post # 5
Anything slightly stressful causes me sleep issues. I’m a horrible sleeper. I actually have to sleep with the tv on because it gives me something to focus on or it takes me over an hour to fall asleep. So, yes! It has lol
Post # 6
YES it has specially when you know he has the ring hiddin in our house!!!
Post # 7
Oh yeah, I’ve had those nights. I go from guilt, of how could I ask him to spend so much money on a ring, but then remind myself that he’s the one that set the budget, and the happy moments when he says something that just makes my day (i.e., I can’t buy that new [insert computer part] since I’m saving for something important). Ugh. I just want to be able to call him my husband already!
Post # 8
Ive been having sleeping issues as well. Its weird, because my head knows it is irrational (Im a very level headed, logical person) and im not even thinking about it. I know Im tired, I LOVE sleep, and my head is ready for snooze-land. But my heart…its all tangled up inside. Even if I try to ignore it, it keeps my adrenilne pumping and awake half the night. The good news is it also keeps me going during the day. so even with 5 hrs of sleep I function just fine.