Not inviting all the relatives...?
more by bluegreenjean
Need help finding dress picture
mixing platinum and white gold?
more in Beehive
how old is too old for the limo?
Michael Jay Fifth Avenue/Online Diamond Help
more in Boards
how old is too old for the limo?

Anyone else headed to the dressmaker?

posted 3 years ago in Beehive
  •  
    1.
    Member Icon
    Member
    414 posts
    Helper bee
    bluegreenjean    June 2009  

    After getting fed up with the huge prices for the classy dresses made of nice fabric and the overinflated cost of even the mosst tacky of gowns ($2,000? for polyester?) I made an appointment with with a local dressmaker/seamstress -- Olga in Cary, NC.  Hopefully she can make me something out of decent fabric, that's within my budget, and I can keep my money out of the hands of the wolfish bridal boutiques.  Take that bridal industry!

    Anyone else going this route?  What were your reasons?  What was the cost?

     
    2.
    Member Icon
    Member
    10 posts
    Newbee
    violetquagmire    June 6, 2009   Somerville MA, marrying in Bethlehem NH

    I am, but the dressmaker is me!  Not only because I'm more of a DIYer, but because the prices are over-inflated, I know where to find high-quality fabric at a relatively decent price, and I can make the dress fit my frustrating shape (hippy & smallish in the waist - comparitively) with some help from my mom.   Also, how great will it be, if the dress turn out great, to say that I made it?!  In your case, how great will it be to stimulate the small economy and give that dressmaker a boost, and possibly more word-of-mouth business?

    Cost depends on the skill, fabric chosen, extras, such as beading, and the area.  I'm obviously not paying myself time, but I think I can do a wonderful art-deco dress for myself under $500, which won't include muslin samples. 

    Go for it, and good luck!

     
    3.
    Member Icon
    Member
    294 posts
    Helper bee
    ju1244    11/1/08   New York City

    The mark-up on wedding gowns is ridiculous but the lines force them to buy so many samples and they end up marking down in the end.  In my opinion the entire industry needs an overhaul.  Discount sellers online did not turn out to be any discount at all UNLESS you pick something from a current collection and buy it when it is discontinued.  I would try to get an estimate from your dressmaker before you start.  Also if you need boning is she skilled in fitting/constructing this? Will you need beading?  You can price fabrics yourself, she will likely be able to get 10-20% discount or at least no tax.  You might want to consider someone who makes pageant dresses (for teens and Miss) since you are already in pageant country.  If you know what fabrics you want I can give you an estimate just bear in mind that natural silks vs poly blends tend to wrinkle more easily.  

    Since I am getting married in your neck of the woods what are you doing about photography?  I'm not lying when I tell you prices in NC are triple what I would pay in Beverly Hills--didnt expect that!   

     

    Attachments

    1. Anyone else headed to the dressmaker? :  wedding dress Img sophiaback.jpg (55.1 KB, 39 downloads) 2 years old
    2. Anyone else headed to the dressmaker? :  wedding dress Img sophia.jpg (56 KB, 24 downloads) 2 years old
     
    4.
    Member Icon
    Member
    414 posts
    Helper bee
    bluegreenjean    June 2009  

    Yay Violet for making your own dress!  Hats off to you!  You'll have to post some pictures of the finished product.

    ju1244 -- The "inspiration dress" I've selected is bead and lace free, which should make things easier.  As for boning, I'm probably going to be needing it. My dressmaker said she had about three books of dresses she's done -- so hopefully this will clue me in as to what she is skilled in making.  I'm comfortable with modifying my dress to take advantage of her skills. 

    The fabrics that I'll probably be using are silk satin with a silk organza overlay.  Ah silk... so easy to forget you're wearing anything at all!  If these will wrinkle heavily, let me know.  Cost estimates are also invaluable to one who knows so very little about buying fabric (me).

    We actually decided to get married in the mountains near Asheville and our photographer is from there -- Sarah Whitmeyer -- but she does travel for a reasonable fee and her prices are also good.  Photographers are sooo expensive! 

    Attachments

    1. Anyone else headed to the dressmaker? :  wedding dress Img JH8962_2.jpg (64.3 KB, 39 downloads) 2 years old
    2. Anyone else headed to the dressmaker? :  wedding dress Img JH8962_1.jpg (61 KB, 45 downloads) 2 years old
     
    5.
    Member Icon
    Member
    79 posts
    Worker bee
    freesia39    January 20, 2006  

    I'm having my dress made!  I just tried it on yesterday.  I didn't want to pay the retail price for a Paloma Blanca, and didn't want to deal with the heft of an Alfred Angelo, so I had the two combined into my dress.

    The dressmaker is a friend of my family though, so she's cutting me a monster deal (practically cost) for lace, and beading added on at no charge.  The custom fit is so much better too - no worrying about ordering a size whatever and hoping it still fits when it finally comes in.  I had an initial "fitting" where she took my measurements, a second where the dress was nearly completed and she looked to see where she had to take it in, and then next time I go, I'll be picking it up!

     
    6.
    Member Icon
    Member
    3 posts
    Wannabee
    col705    April 2009   McKinney, TX

    I found a site online that custom makes a replica of a Watters & Watters dress I tried on this week, only $300.  It's snythetic instead of silk, but custom-fit to my measurements and $1300 cheaper.  Has anyone ordered one of these dresses?  I'm curious if they turn out as well as the originals...

     
    7.
    Member
    482 posts
    Helper bee
    V      

    I am...I'm having a garden wedding and everything I've seen that isn't pricey is made of heavy, hot fabrics! I have made myself have a budget of around $500 (Well, I'm really hoping it'll be that)...all the dresses that were about that price that I liked were shot down by my mom and FI Anyone else headed to the dressmaker? :  wedding dress Icon Razz...

    Anyone else headed to the dressmaker? :  wedding dress Icon Neutral they said they weren't bridey enough...but i really don't care about the dress and there's NO WAY I'm spending more than $1000 for a dress...no matter what occassion and even if it's only once.

    Anyone else headed to the dressmaker? :  wedding dress Icon Biggrin If they want me in a princess gown they'll have to pay for it...AND pay me to wear it!

     
    8.
    Member Icon
    Member
    78 posts
    Worker bee
    cbkj    September 20, 2008   Atlanta

    I decided to get my dress made after finding VERY limited options for a v-neck dress and a mermaid/fit and flare style.  My inspiration dress was $3200 and polyester and not so impressive detailing for the cost, but a pretty dress none the less. My other inspiration was $4000+.  Both unrealstic for me. 

    So I found a seamstress who is making my dress for $600 plus fabric.  All of the fabrics were about $700 for beautiful silk satin and lining and embroidered beaded lace detail so I made out much better

     
    9.
    Member Icon
    Member
    3 posts
    Wannabee
    col705    April 2009   McKinney, TX

    where do you find a seamstress?  I googled "tailors bridal" but came up with nothing...anyone know a seamstress in dallas area?

     
    10.
    Member Icon
    Member
    414 posts
    Helper bee
    bluegreenjean    June 2009  

    Woo hoo!  Three cheers for local talent -- or tapping the talent of family and friends... and even your own!  You can get something twice as nice for half the price.  Case in point: the dress I liked was 3,300 + alterations.  The dress I'm having made -- which is way more unique -- 1,000-1,200 (depending on the fabric I choose).  Alterations included. 

    col705 -- just keep searching online, try other boards, ask around.  It seems like some really talented people work out of their homes and have fairly low profiles.  I've also heard that fabric stores usually have some good recommendations for seamstresses.

     
    11.
    Member Icon
    Member
    4 posts
    Wannabee
    Saranich      

    My mom is going to make my dress. She's an awesome seamstress. I'm not looking for something super glamourous though. I'm going the "made with love" =)

     
    12.
    Member Icon
    Member
    217 posts
    Helper bee
    MsPopcorn    August 2007   Toronto, ON, Canada

    yup, I did, for exactly your reasons.  I just could not see why the dresses I tried on cost what they did, and I was having a hard time finding what I had in mind anyway.  I sourced good material myself, and had a simple cut and it saved me a bundle.

     
    13.
    Member Icon
    Member
    4 posts
    Wannabee
    sparkplug    October 4, 2008  

    After months of searching all over the country, I found an Angel Sanchez evening gown in L.A. and fell in love, but it was RED!  I'm a modern girl, but I still want to wear white (ok, ivory).

    So I snapped a couple of pics, brought them to a dressmaker, and sketched out a couple of small changes.  The Angel Sanchez gown was $3500 and my seamstress is charging me $1800.   I go next week for my first fitting and I'm both a bit anxious and excited!  

     
    14.
    Member Icon
    Member
    231 posts
    Helper bee
    superstar    April 2009   Bay Area

    holy shit it's still over $1000 to have a dress tailored...doh.  i might have to go to china :(

     
    15.
    Member Icon
    Member
    55 posts
    Worker bee
    kayteebug       Hurst, Texas

    My mom is making my dress. It was hard to let go of the idea of a Monique (did anyone see that Jewel wore one in her recent wedding??) but I think I will be happier with a dress that is tailored directly to my taste. PLUS, no dress designer knows what my boy likes better than I do, so I think we'll both be glad I made this decision. My mom has made several dresses before, so I know she'll be able to pull this off. :)

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.

    Tags:





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    ellisrobertson 24
    fishbone 20
    MsPanda 14
    aduarte3201 14
    ladyartichoke 12
    mypinkshoes 12
    pengoala 11
    sylvia.riggle 11
    ShellVee 10
    ndreighton 10

    Beehive

    User Posts Today
    ellisrobertson 9
    KimKimmieKim 7
    dlujan 4
    londonchick 4
    pengoala 3
    ladyartichoke 3
    londonpeach84 3
    mypinkshoes 3
    BearcatBetch 3
    julies1949 2
    More