- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2001
I was just wondering if there is anyone else that has a spouse that is very controlling, insecure, jealous, demeaning, and immature when it comes to your relationship/marriage? My husband always wants his way, he thinks women are beneath him, he doens’t let me have a life outside of him or our child, I have always kept the house perfect, our child well kept…homework….eats well…gifted and talented classes..the whole nine. Stay-in-shape, cook, clean, manage his business affairs-accounting, advertising, and etc. But, NOTHING is ever good enough, he is jealous of all other men, doesn’t like me having strong minded women friends (he will call them type of women bulldkyes or loudmouths), always wanting to know what I am doing, calls 5x a day to see what I am doing, use to check up on me at work, drove me nuts to the point I quit and just stay-at-home, trying to start-up a new business from home Internet based and he has to take over, it’s just to the frigging point I’ve really had enough, my body/health is starting to fail, I second guess myself, I am afraid to leave the house, he gets mad if I get my hair trimmed and he doesn’t like my bangs and then will say you need to grow them out more, he criticizes my driving, EVERYTHING. I am afraid to breath wrong, I sleep in the spare bedroom because he didn’t like me getting up at night to use the restroom. I feel like I just want another man to hold me, be nice to me, encourage me, make me feel good about myself. Is that too much to ask for? I give up, what am I doing wrong ladies? WHAT? Any advice would be appreciated. And sorry for posting this but my “female” organs don’t work anymore because of all the mental abuse.