(Closed) Anyone else mortified to think your future in laws know you have sex?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

Um, yeah that would upset me too haha!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think they would be mortified that we are not having sex in our early 30’s!!! 🙂 (wich is not the case)

 

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

yeah my fi is 31 years old, and we live together. i’m pretty sure his parents aren’t stupid. and i’m ok with it, as long as it’s not actually spoken out loud.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Maybe she doesn’t think it is a big deal either and that’s why she asked?

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Not mortified that it is known, but mortified it is discussed lol. His parents think it’s funny to make jokes, especially pregnancy jokes. I understand why you’d be upset! I’m immune to it now – and since all of FI’s sibs and his parents were all teen parents, I just accept the fact that to them, being 27 and 32 and childless is weird and they’re waiting for us to “catch up.” It’s weird that it’s something people like to talk about though. My parents wouldn’t touch that subject with a ten foot pole!

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

The people in my SO’s family are very…up front. The last time I was there, his uncle was singing MinMan’s praises and naturally I agreed with him, saying that he “works hard at everything he does.” So of course, his uncle does a hip thrust and says “Yeah, he works hard at everything he does!”

Sigh.

What can you do but laugh? On the bright side, it seems like his family is interested in your welfare, lol!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Well we live together so I am sure the cat is out of the bag 😉

FI’s parents sometimes tell us TMI about their own sex lives, so I don’t get too embaressed much. haha

It does weird me out when FI’s mom is having a nostalgic moment and we need to head home. I feel like I am taking her baby away from him, but it’s no big deal since FI understands a healthy adult relationship with her.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Yeah we’re in our early 30s, I think the jig is up here too.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Not since I had an enlightening conversation with my FH’s Nana about how she can scream with the best of them at Chippendale’s.  Haha.  And no, his Nana isn’t ill or anything, she’s just kind of like me, upfront, honest, and likes to have a good time…. lol. 

Since me and FH live together, I think it’s just one of those things where it’s assumed but not thought or talked about much.

Post # 12
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Busy bee

My FMIL brought up the fact that my FH’s little sister walked in on us…. in front of my mom. Meh.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

Not mortified, I mean, we’re living together and are practically joined at the hip.  

He’s also closer to his parents than I am to mine, so it’s highly likely that they’ve talked about it.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

We’ve been living together for four years.  I doubt it’s a secret anymore. 

 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I don’t think I would care, except his mom seems to want to make us feel ashamed about it (which is weird because she used to be a huge party girl that slept around when she was younger than us).  The first time I met her, before my fiance and I were even living together, there was no where in the house for me to sleep other than my fiance’s room.  She told me (when he wasn’t there) that there should be “no hanky panky” in her house, and that if she had it her way we wouldn’t be sleeping in the same bed.  Holy red face!

THEN!  This October, after we’ve been together 5 years, living together for half that time and engaged, we had to sleep in the same bed at their place for Thanksgiving.  She said “no loud sex noises” because “I don’t want to explain to a 7 year old (his sister) in the next room what that means”

MY GOODNESS LADY!  WHY WOULD WE WANT TO COME TO YOUR HOUSE AND HAVE SEX IN THE ROOM NEXT TO YOUR DAUGHTER WHEN WE CAN DO IT AT HOME THE NEXT DAY!

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

My FI and I are 29 and 33 and when we went to his house for Thanksgiving, his older sisters brought up the sleeping in the same bed issue.  I honestly hadn’t even thought about it.  At this point I am so beyond it being a big deal.  I mean we live together and his dad has stayed with us for a week.  His mom had already set up one room for us, but his sisters bringing it up was so embarrassing!

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