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Nope we didn't have either. We had no children invited to our wedding at all.
We're getting married in October and we aren't having a flower girl or ring bearer. Just didn't want to have them, no particular reason.
Nope no ring bearer and no flower girl. I love the idea of petals already on the aisle though - I think it is so beautiful.
We aren't having them. I thought about it, for a minute last week, because a very dear friend has boy/girl twin 2yos.... but then I remembered I have already printed the programs, so nope! None for us!
I think my older sister/MOH wants to carry a ring - so I suppose we'll have her carry FH's and the BM carry mine.
i never thought i'd have either, but my husband has the cutest niece that we both love and she was the perfect flower girl. we aren't close to any little boys though, and i wouldn't trust them to carry our rings anyway.
We are, but I've been to a few weddings that haven't had either and they seemed to work just fine
We have neither. We have no children at our wedding at all for that matter.
We are not having flower girl or ring bearer either. I never really liked the idea of having to choose who would have these roles in the wedding. I think it makes the other kids feel left out and puts extra stress on the parents. We're trying to keep the wedding as adults only as possible.
actually - up until literally two days before our wedding - we didn't have either. We didn't know any children that we wanted in our wedding - except my nephew, and my bro/sil live in florida, we're in indiana - and they told my mom and me that they couldn't make it - so we didn't plan on any children in the party or at the reception (we had a no-kids-reception)...however, my bro surprised me by driving up here two days before the wedding! we actually got my 2.5 year old nephew in a tux and he was AWESOME as our ring bearer! lol. however - we had no pillow or anything for him - and he just handed the boxes to our best man. :)
We are not having a ring bearer or a flower girl. No kids invited-- not intended but the people are inviting don't have young kids.
Neither...we don't have kids involved at all...partly because there are no kids really in the family/close friends and also because we don't really want kids at the event...
@MissAsB: Can I ask how you worded your invitations to get the message across about no kids?? Thanks!!
We didn't have them either. We had 8 attendants and a 6 person honour guard, so there was already enough going on.
I dont know anyone young enough.
Considered my littleneighbour for a split second but its just not something for the wedding that is that important to me.
I also saved on the stress of not having two more ppl to get fitted and all that :)
Nope! My nephews are too old for that, and I don't know any little girls either.
we did and it was totally not necessary! I had to buy them flowers, boutineers, a ring pillow, each of them gifts and invite them + their parents to the rehearsal dinner and lunch the morning of. They had to purchase a dress & a mini suit and pay for little girl to get her hair done and come in town a day early! They just stood there! I'm sure they enjoyed it actually but it was a lot of effort and money for very little!
No, I don't want to deal with children in the wedding!! The best man will hold the rings.
We have a ring bearer (FI's nephew..he's 2 and adorable) but no flower girl. I don't think it makes much of a difference. It's a cute way to involve nieces, nephews, children etc but not necessary. Oh, and nephew's mom will be walking with him down the aisle...I'd be a little nervous otherwise. :)
We actually have too many kids in the family, and I can't choose one over another. So we're leaving them all out of it. I know no matter how it would go, there would be drama from the other mothers. I'm the first to get married in the family so I'm getting stress from everywhere!
No kids here either. We will already have some petals sprinkled down the aisle before I walk down and the best man will be holding the rings.
Not a kid person in general, and no one who was coming to the wedding had kids in the right age range - we either have folks with babies or folks with teenagers so we just decided to skip the kids!
Ring Dog :) My Weiner dog will have the rings attached (securely) to his vest!!
We aren't. I have two little cousins young enough to be flower girls, but they have 5 other brothers and sisters so I certainly don't want to send a message that some siblings are more important than others. And as for ring bearers there aren't any boys young enough. Besides I feel like kids in the bridal party just adds a LOT of stress that I won't be able to handle on the day of. I love kids, I work with kids, I just don't feel like having to corral kids before I walk down the aisle.
Nope, we're not having a ring bearer or a flowergirl either. There isn't a specific reason as to why we aren't, we just decided that we didn't need them.
Not having any kids at our wedding, so no need for either for us. We'll just give the rings to our best man/woman.
we're not having either as well. the best man will have my ring and my matron of honor will have my fi's ring. easy access during the ceremony.
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The florist is doing a really pretty aisle of rose petals and we were thinking of having a groomsmen hold the ring since we don't have anyone young enough. Anyone else?