Anyone else pretty calm until someone says "Are you excited yet?"

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Anyone else pretty calm until someone says "Are you excited yet?"

posted 2 years ago in December 2009
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Blushing bee

notasaint December 31, 2009 FL

I've been pretty calm and everything is done pretty much so I had planned on coasting until the week before the wedding then finished up stuff.

My FMIL asks me all the time if I'm excited and talks about wedding stuff and my heart starts racing. FI and I had a talk in the car yesterday about how he feels like I've made him a part of retirement future and are actually able to see us growing old togetheer (his ex wife was very much only into where SHE wanted to be in the future) and this got me kinda freaking out. I started thinking about forever and paying off debt and stuff like that. Heart started racing again.

I kinda just want everyone to go about their business but it's my fault, I made a huge deal when we got engaged and had been extremely excited.

2 years ago

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Busy bee

Derbybride December 5, 2009 Louisville KY

I know exactly what your saying...I was completely calm and laid back until about two days prior. I have always been a bit of a stress ball tho so it didn't surprise me too much.

On the day of the wedding I was way more nervous than I ever would have imagined! We both laugh now about the fact that we were both trembling and holding hands with a death grip at the altar.

All I can say is deep breaths! And it helped me a lot to look over my checklists again and assure myself that everything was done. Keep yourself busy also, sitting around gives your mind time to wander and the waiting can be the worst part.

I wish you the best of luck and once the I do's are over you will be sooo much more relaxed:)

2 years ago