Post # 1
Guess I just need to vent. After feeling like I was so ahead of the curve I feel stuck with planning. All the things I kept pushing off because the decision wasn’t coming easily to me/us (finalizing guest list, finding a hair/makeup person, invites) are now decisions I have to make and I just feel stuck! To top it off the STDs came in the mail and they’re terrible. Good news is we used a groupon so if we can’t use them we’re only out $17, but I’m so disappointed and just feeling stressed. Anyone else hit/hitting roadblocks? What helped?!
Post # 3
hey, sorry to hear your feeling a bit down, we have had some stumbling blocks too, trying to decide the design of the save the dates and invitations has been tricky and we cant decide on a band so thats also causing tension.
hope you feel better soon, i just keep trying to remember that the most important thing is we get married, no one will care what the stationary looked like afterwards or if the band sang their song, id like to get these details right though!
Post # 4
I’m starting to feel this way for sure! I’ve been eager and non stop for so long and now I just feel like I’m tired and dont want to plan anymore thats my roadblock. There are so many things to do yet I can’t really go forward with anything with is so dicouraging. I have meeting planned for this weekend but can’t do anything else at the moment. I just want everything in place! BUt also want to nap until the day of haha
Post # 5
Mainly with the invitees… we still need to ‘short list’ our friends… I hate doing it!
Post # 6
I agree!! This is an awkward time for us September brides. For me, all the big things are done and it still feels “too soon” to take care of the finer details.
Focusing on trying to plan our honeymoon and finding a hairstylist. (both of which are giving me a headache!) I am starting to think its never “too soon” to do something…. collecting little odds and ends for projects I plan to do over the summer.
lots of luck!! xx
Post # 7
I’m kinda stuck as well. Our venue, photographer and my dress were taken care of very early and since then I feel like I’ve done nothing (because it was too early to do much else) and now I’ve totally lost my momentum. I’m waiting for planning to be fun again and not feel like a chore. For some reason, I really hated trying to find an officiant. It just got to the point where I had to assign the task to FI because it was giving me major anxiety. No clue why.
We’re planning to start our registries next month, so I’m hoping that will give me the boost that I need to back into planning.
Post # 8
I am getting to that point also. My dress, venue, and idea of invitations is set but everything else is just really to early to decide. I have decided that i am going to slowly do my DIY projects and start looking at items for my BM gifts, just to keep me going and not stuck
Post # 9
I’m sure things will come together! On the other hand, we havr nothing done! We have a venue & I have a dress. That’s it!! I need to get the ball rolling!
Post # 10
I’m so glad I’m not the only one feeling this way. I felt guilty that it wasn’t as much fun anymore. Thanks Bees!