(Closed) Anyone else's fiance not that interested…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Sorry to hear that. Hang in there don’t get discouraged. My hubby was the same way. Not all guys care about the details and don’t really think about what we girls have been planning since we were like 12, right?

Anyhow my husband first envisioned that our wedding would be like 15 people total, and we would rent a house and just have the ceremony and then spend the weekend with our 15 guests, like a family reunion at the house and that would be it, which sounds nice, but to me didn’t feel “wedding” enough. I had a completely opposite and different vision, haha. So I took a lot of his wishes into consideration and we ended up having a small wedding (53 people total), with a “welcome to our home” theme – at a boutique hotel that had a really cozy vibe, which worked out great because it was intimate and manageable. As for the details, DH could have cared less, so I ended up leaving him out of the decision process and took care of the details and designing of our decor and details. My point is that if your FI doesnt’ care, then go ahead and add in the things that will help personalize your wedding and make you happy. There are a lot of DIY stuff you can make, you can scour dollar stores, the Wedding Bee classifieds, etc for bargains and deals.  

Cheer up and don’t let this get you done. A lot of guys sometimes don’t think about wedding details beyond getting their tux and knowing when to show up on the Big Day. 🙂

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