- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
GOODNESS! I am about to lose my mind right now… A couple of my bridesmaids are driving me UP THE WALL. Both of them are in 2 other weddings this summer after mine and apparently they think they know more about planning a wedding than me (even though neither of them is engaged). The thing that bothers me is this: I’m a quiet, usually reserved girl which often means people think they can push me around….Well these girls make statements about planning and when to do stuff but I am almost 99% sure they don’t say those things to the other girls who are engaged.
I am 3 months away from my wedding… I got this. It just drives me nuts when they act like I don’t know what I’m doing simply because I haven’t told them what shoe I want them to wear yet…Forgive me, I’m thinking about 219038210 other things right now, including trying to apply to grad school.
I know they could be innocently trying to help me, but the way it comes off is condescending. It doesn’t help that these 2 are roommates and I can picture them (because I used to live with both of them) sitting on the couch discussing how I’m doing everything all wrong.
!!!! I just needed to vent. Thanks Bees 🙂