(Closed) Anyone feeling stressed out?

posted 5 years ago in August 2013
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

We’re date twins! I am definitely starting to get stressed and antsy about everything lol. I still have not decided almost anything as far as decor, and I change my mind every other week as far as centerpieces πŸ˜› I try to remind myself that six months is still plenty of time and as long as I stay on top of what is left, everything will be fine πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

We’re also basically in payment mode, which is stressful. No one who’s helping out will actually talk about money, and I still haven’t found a better job (not for lack of trying). Other than that, I’m waiting for the weather to warm up so I can do some painting and we just have some other small stuff (cake flavors, etc.).

I’m definitely stressing (I clench my jaw at night when I’m stressed) about lots of stuff, though. :

Post # 5
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I was feeling like that as well my wedding is 04/20/13 and now I’m laying low now as everything is done.  We’re just making the last few payments for all the vendors. I was feeling stressed a few months ago, so I understand.  It will get better though.

Post # 6
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866 posts
Busy bee

Another date twin! I was feeling anxious but I had a majorly productive week. Right now I feel like its so far away everyone is going to get so annoyed about hearing about it

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I also stress pretty often. Thankfully we will have the whole wedding paid off by next week, but now Im stressing about getting things done in time, trying not to forget things, etc. And Ive been having wedding nightmares for about 8 months now. ha

Post # 8
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212 posts
Helper bee

Yes. i had a break down the other day in my room. πŸ™

Post # 9
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116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I had my first bout of wedding stress/irritation. I felt like I didnt know what was going on with my bridesmaids. I am over it and happy again.

Post # 11
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1066 posts
Bumble bee

Not stressed yet, but wondering where time is going????? I have so much to organize!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I oscillate between feeling like I’m on top of everything, to feeling like I’ve got nothing done. I’m starting to get the wedding dreams in full force, where I wake up on my wedding day and all I’ve done so far is all I have for the wedding. Sometimes I’ll look at my to-do list and feel like it’s going okay, and sometimes I feel tremendously overwhelmed.

A couple of months ago, I even got depressed when I had anything to do with planning. I got headaches every time I even opened my planning page. I took a break for awhile and seemed to snap out of it.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m in worry-about-finances mode and work is very stressful right now. For that reason, I wish the wedding day was here so I could be past all the finances stress and the can-I-really-make-my-bouquet stress and look forward to the time off from the office, lol!

I am also unhappy about the guest list, we’re spending a lot just to throw lunch for our families, it feels like right now…

Post # 14
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309 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

My biggest stress right now is NOT having a dress. UGH!

Post # 15
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425 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I was doing so good for so long and stress free but then yesterday it just hit me! On Sunday, I finalized the menu and bar options wuth my parents so felt very accomplished and in a great place with 5 months to go. THEN I come home and my FI says his parents want to change the rehearsal dinner to include all OOT guests which may mean a different location plus redoing the invites and making more packets that were already completed. Then he emails me about adding 2 more friends to the wedding guest list (he is already 6 over the number we gave him and we already said no to these 2 a few months ago). AND then the icing on the cake was our wedding planner at our venue’s last day is May 1st so I have 3-4 months to bring someone else up to speed and hope I like her! Hopefully today is a better day…

Post # 16
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Im July bride and last night i had a dream that my dress is ugly and no one likes it πŸ˜€

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