Post # 1
When I first got engaged, my Fiance and I wanted a small wedding, whith no wedding party. He has two kids from a previous marriage (6&10 and they will be ring bearers and walk mom’s down the aisle). My mother has insisted on me making my sister a bridesmaid. I finally gave in and asked her, but now she does nothing but fight me on every decision. She hates every dress I suggest, she fights me on covering her tattoes for the wedding etc. I don’t know what to do, as I will be the bad guy no matter what!!
Post # 3
Why does she need to cover her tatoos? Unless they’re in places that wouldn’t show while wearing a tasteful cocktail dress (with or without straps) I don’t see the big deal.
Post # 4
I would never ask a BM to cover their tattoos, that’s part of who they are. If you want to cover YOUR tattoos then feel free but ask another person to do so just doesn’t seem right to me. Ask her frankly if she WANTS to be a BM. If not, then tell your Mom that sis doesn’t want to be, that it’s your wedding and that’s that. If your sis wants be be a BM, then explain to her that it’s your choice as to the wedding’s party’s attire. Pick out three suitable dresses and she gets to pick one.