Anyone having weird dreams due to the impending day?

posted 3 years ago in October 2013
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’ve been having a lot of bad dreams involving my FI. Last night in my dream he wanted an open relationship so he could continue to see some woman he’d been sleeping with during our relationship (this only happened in the dream, obviously) and in another he wasn’t sure he wanted to marry me 3 weeks before the wedding. A few nights ago in a dream we were broken up or breaking up and I went on a date with someone else. I hate those dreams, but I think they are meaningless. Unless you really are having doubts when you’re awake, I think it’s just stress.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@CloverQueen:  The reason cheating dreams are common before wedding is because of this:

Your partner cheating on you: insecurity or lack of confidence

You cheating on your partner: unstatisfied or loss of desire for partner

This was straight from a Psychology course I took for half a semester before I dropped it. There are ridiculous amounts of dream therories and what I told you was the theroy that dreams portray feelings by using the most relatable situation to that feeling often without showing you the real cause. Like dreaming about dying can signify that you feel at a loss or helpless. 

This wouldn’t mean you WANT to cheat but could indicate things in your relatinship that need to be tended to like intamacy ect…

I have weird dreams but they are usually about stuff going wrong at the wedding :/

(none of this was advice just food for thought) 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’ve just been having weird wedding dreams – last night i dreamt our reception was inside a supermarket. so weird.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@CloverQueen:  That is disturbing!!  The only dream I have had is not remembering the ceremony.

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I have had quite a few wedding dreams.  I have told Fiance all about them! The last one I was relaxed all day and then an hour before the ceermony (no hair or makeup done or dress on) I realized I forgot our rings and the marriage license (which are at his parents house in their safe).  So an hour before the ceremony we are driving home (which is an hour away).  We are stuck in traffic.  I started crying.  Saying we would never make it back in time.  He kept saying we could postpone the ceremony.  I said ” we can’t go on our HONEYMOON and not be married!” LOL  I never believed that people had these dreams before but since I have had so many, I am a believer!  I think they are from stress and things I can’t control. LOL

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I have had quite a few wedding dreams.  I have told Fiance all about them! The last one I was relaxed all day and then an hour before the ceermony (no hair or makeup done or dress on) I realized I forgot our rings and the marriage license (which are at his parents house in their safe).  So an hour before the ceremony we are driving home (which is an hour away).  We are stuck in traffic.  I started crying.  Saying we would never make it back in time.  He kept saying we could postpone the ceremony.  I said ” we can’t go on our HONEYMOON and not be married!” LOL  I never believed that people had these dreams before but since I have had so many, I am a believer!  I think they are from stress and things I can’t control. LOL

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

About a month ago I had a very long and detailed dream about my hair and makeup not being done as the ceremony started and then going to get it done, and then having it all go wrong. This is just one in a series of dreams over the last two years.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

i had one wedding nightmare about 5 months out.  haven’t had one since.  let’s hope it stays that way, 22 days to go.

 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’ve been having crazy dreams for the past 6 months but they are generally about me walking down the isle with jeans on and running shoes, or being late to ceremony 3 hours becasue i needed to clean the house or i forgot to get flowers etc…..

I never had a cheating dream though. I wouldn’t woryy about it. This is the time where all kinds of emotions and stuff get stirred up and dreams just let them all run wild.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I have been having bad wedding (not marriage thankfully) dreams for months now. Where the officiant doesn’t show up, where people are mad, where the menu is a disaster, our venue didn’t ermember us, no one wore what they were supposed to, a family member had an emergency and we had to cancel events. I also had a honeymoon dream where the place we are going was openly hostile to us.

 

YAY for our subconscious minds! (Sarcasm!)

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

The other night I was up most of the night with bad wedding dreams and racing thoughts of doom.  I’m pretty sure I thought of every worse-case senario you could imagine happening on your wedding day, from a car getting a flat tire, to delaying the ceremony because the in-laws are running late.  I slept well last night, but I’m still freaking out of everything that could go wrong.  *sigh*

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I think it is normal to have freaky dreams around your wedding.  I had a ton that my dress was not done and I just had jeans.  Or one where my husband was stuck in Asia (he has never been to Asia) and could not make it for the wedding.  Tons and tons of dreams like that happened but they were just dreams.  

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I had a dream not too long ago about a very kissy aunt of mine who when greeting me at the wedding attached my face with hot pink kisses and grabbed my head with both hands. It was horrifying but when I told everyone about my dream they laughed and said it could very well come true lol

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