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Is anyone NOT going to diet prior to their wedding? It seems like so many women are obsessed with dieting before their wedding...even if they are at a healthy weight.
I will not be dieting before my wedding because I like my look, but I'm curious to find out how you Bees view dieting before the wedding:
Is it a good motivation to get back your figure? Is it a temporary goal to just look smashing on your wedding day? What do you think?
I originally had the intention of doing it, but I figured I would just try to be healthier. I didn't lose weight really, but I did feel a bit better cutting some of the junk out of my diet. I'm not going to lie, I wish I was thinner, but I'm happy with me so that's how I looked when I got married.
Not I! I'm just trying to hold steady....which is a bit difficult (well, not difficult, but nerve-wracking(?), anxiety inducing(?)), since I was fitted for and ordered my dress right after I finished triathlon season! So, I'm just trying to eat healthy (how I always eat..mostly) and stay active. Good news--my dress came in, and it fit like it was already tailored---apparently I fit Pronovias sizing exactly. So all I have to do is stay the same...wish I had the dress here at home so I could check in every month or so, though!
I'm not dieting exactly, but I am conscious of what I eat. Sure, I'd love to lose 10 pounds before my first dress fitting, but seeing as how that's highly unlikely, I'll essentially eat like normal and cut out some extra junk.
HOWEVER, I am definitely changing my workout schedule -- adding in an extra workout day or two and toning up my arms. I normally just jog a few mornings a week. Also, my boss at my part-time job gave all of the employees a pedometer recently, so I'll probably try adding a few thousand extra steps a day, too.
I didn't go out of my way to diet before the wedding but I ended up losing weight due to all the stress from planning and family drama related to the wedding. My eating habits didn't change since very much but I ended up trying to work out more to make sure that I was still toned and not just flabby-skinny, if that makes any sense.
I'm not dieting for my wedding.
I'm the kind of person that is always striving to be physically active and eat well (it's a struggle...), so I won't let this wedding change that in either direction. My goal is to exercise at least 3 times a week no matter how busy I get (this helps with stress and nerves too!), eat lots of fruits and veggies, drink lots water, and cut down on carbs (I am a life-long carb addict!). But I really have no interest in losing a significant amount of weight before my wedding - I've always been a little thick and i must say - my strapless mermaid cut dress looks fabulous the way I am!
I just wanna feel energized and healthy on the day of!
I'm not dieting.
I thought about it, briefly, as I have gained about 10 pounds recently. However, I like the way I look and enjoy what I eat. I am healthy and happy with my weight.
However, I am doing other things -- like trying to make sure my skin is at its best!
I think it's great to have a reason or goal to work toward, and if your wedding gets you in shape that's great!
I didn't diet before my wedding. I was biking to work everyday and ate healthily (like I always do) so that kept my weight under control. In the last week I lost a few pounds from excitement/stress/doing lots/not eating as much as usual, but that wasn't on purpose!
My plan is to just eat healthier and "tone up" for the wedding. I'm not looking at the numbers, really.
i've been hitting the gym up for years now and have been able to hold my weight pretty steadily. i don't really intend to diet but i do plan on eating healthier closer to the wedding. i'm going to do everything i can to make sure i have good skin on that day.
I'm not dieting either! I've thought about working out more but with my work schedule, travel and lazy factor I haven't bumped it up at all. No biggie! I had my first dress fitting on Saturday and the only thing I thought was...need spanx, cause undies are a showing! :o)
Yay for not dieting!
I've been saying I'm going to diet & exercise more often for the wedding for months now, and I have this funny feeling it's never going to happen, and basically I'm ok with that. Both fortunately and unfortunately, I don't really think I need to lose much weight and I'm pretty happy with how I look overall so it gets in the way of motivation. I eat pretty healthy as it is, but I would like to tone up, so I'm hoping as the wedding approaches I'll get a bit more serious about the working out factor, at least.
One of my pet peeves is when brides become emaciated before their weddings. It's one thing to lose some weight and tone up, but sometimes some women get so carried away they don't even look like themselves!!
I'm not dieting. I've been doing pilates for the last year, which has COMPLETELY re-shaped my body. I've lost maybe 7lbs in the whole year, and when I went for my fitting, the seamstress thought they had ordered me the wrong size dress. People assume that I've been trying to loose weight for the wedding...I'm just trying to exercise and stay healthy.
I am not, because putting that kind of pressure on myself will practically promise that I will gain 15 pounds. I am, however, mindful of what I eat and because of that, I make better choices. But 'dieting'...no way.
I'm not dieting in the strict sense. My FI and I have started to eat smaller portions and have cut out bad snacks like cookies, brownies, ice cream, etc. and no longer drink pop. And we are walking everyday-rain, shine, or cold. We are doing these things not so much for the wedding but more for health reasons. We are both overweight and are in our 30's. So in an effort to avoid diabetes, heart disease, and high cholesterol we are trying to adopt a healthier lifestyle. So we're not really doing it for the wedding and besides I don't want to lose too much weight and have to do major alterations on my dress!
I'm not dieting - just trying to maintain. My dress fits me perfect as is! I have added some more arm toning exercises to my routine though.
I will not be dieting. I can't do it. Food is just too delicious. I will be exercising, though! I want to stay at my current weight.
i'm not dieting either, even though i feel like i need it, because i don't like how my cheeks look when i laugh... :( my weight has always been almost the same (i'm chubby) with slightly variations, but i feel good right now, and i don't really want to handle the pressure of a diet to my already stressful wedding planning...
I am not dieting. I have been working out with a paersonal trainer for the last 3 nonths. My goal is toned arms and tone all over.
I'm not dieting, but I am going to try to eat more healthy. I'm fine how I am, but I want to stay this way, not gain.
I'm not dieting either. Eating healthy is part of my lifestyle. What I am doing is continuing my training routine (long distance running and cross training), which I usually take a break from in the spring. I really just want to maintain where I'm at now, since my dress fits perfectly.
Add another to the list of no dieting! I have a pretty high metabolism and am happy with my weight! Although I do try to eat as healthy as I can..... I just need to keep it this way for another 95 days and we're good =D
I actually changed my eating habits last year & lost 20lbs and feel A LOT better. As for exercise, I would really love to get back to the gym & tone up a little. Looking good for the big day is a great motivator, but I'm not going to stress about it. And I will definitely be eating on my wedding day!
not dieting - but hoping i don't gain an ounce as my dress fits perfectly.
I always imagined I'd diet and exercise myself into the best shape of my LIFE before my wedding. Now my wedding's less than six months away and I'm...sitting on my couch. ;)
I do ride my bike to work most days of the week (only 10 minutes each way) and I try to do push-ups every night to tone up my not-so-toned arms. But that's about the extent of it. No dieting whatsoever, though.
I'm happy with the way I look, and didn't want to add extra stress to the wedding planning process. I definitely avoided the pre-vow dieting.
I'm not dieting per se, but my sister and I made a promise to each other about a year ago to try and eat more healthy and be more active since heart disease and diabetes is rampant on our dad's side of the family. Even in our early/mid 20's we're trying to train ourselves to live healthier lives so when we're older we (hopefully) won't be as at-risk as our family members.
I'm overall happy with myself and my weight, though I think I could do a lot better at making healthier food choices.
But I agree that some women take it too far when getting ready for the big day. A girl at work dropped about 20 pounds before her wedding. Yes, she looked good, but you pretty much couldn't talk to her because she had such a low calorie intake that she was hungry and cranky all the time. She was not being healthy, despite losing all that weight. She's a lot nicer to talk to now that she eats food again and has gained about 5 lbs. ^_^
Nope, no diet. I eat really healthily already, so I felt no need for the lifestyle change. I could exercise more and I intend on making it a priotity at SOME point, but the number of stresses right now means that adding one more obligation to my day would probably make me cry.
no dieting. but I have a few road races coming up so I am trying to be good about eating well. I function better, like everyone else, when eating lots of fruits, veggies and lean protein but when I get hungry I eat candy, which is no good for trying to feel and look my best.
but I do wonder about brides losing a large amount (>10 lbs) before the wedding only to regain it and more after the wedding. and isn't your FH marrying you because he loves you the way you are?
One last thing, I read an artcile in the US New and World Report about prenuptial agreements that state details about fitness, that is that say Mr. x will lose 30 pounds or else, or mrs. x will maintain her svelt figure or else. Wow, all I could really say to the article was wow.
Awesome - its wonderful to hear about happy healthy women! It's such a refresher to see that not every woman feels like she needs to achieve that emaciated/anorexic look that the celebrities have/ENDURE.
I'm trying to change my eating habits a little, which will probably result in some weight loss, but I'm not trying to diet for the wedding. I just happen to really like candy and junk food, and I've been trying to cut it back and be healthier for a long time.
I did not try and lose weight, but I did eat healthy, run and drink lots of water. These were all great habits to get into prior to any wedding day stress hitting.
I am not dieting. Actually, that word means nothing to me because essentially diets don't work. Unless its a lifestyle change, whatever you lose will come back on (I speak from years of yo-yo dieting!)
Now that I'm at a healthy weight, I am more interested in toning up before our wedding :) Specifically my arms & back!
I am dieting but only because I want to be at a healthy weight, not because of some celebrity ideal. I gained a significant amount of weight (40lbs) in the past 2 years after my knee and ankle surgeries. I just want to feel like me on my wedding day, not this newer, overweight version of myself.
I really admire all the ladies that lose weight and tone up during their wedding planning. With the chaos of the planning and finishing school, I just couldn't seem to do it.
I'm not dieting per se, since dieting carries a connotation of cutting back not only on the quantity of food but on quality too. I don't plan to eat less but plan to eat better (fresh food/produce, home-made as much as possible). I also plan to abstain from alcohol at least a month up to my wedding day. My main concern is not the weight but my complexion and whether my muscles are toned (since my dress is strapless). W/ all this craze about Michelle Obama's arms, I would love to put on some weights as long as they're muscle weights.
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