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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    I hate to admit it, but I rarely bother signing a guest book at a wedding, and if I do, I don't write much other than my name.  Is anyone not bothering with one?  Or do you have any creative and less expensive ideas for this rather than buying a guest book?

     
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    marlew    October 23, 2010   Ajax, Ontario

    No guestbook for me

    Not standard for any of the weddings I've gone to, and I don't know anyone that has actually put the effort in to sign one

     
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    egb    January 2010  

    We didn't have one. One reason was the same as you; AND we had a very intimate ceremony with 14 guests only... I prefer to look at pictures than read "congrats! all the best to you two" over and over...

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    Tonya2010    September 11, 2010  

    I am not really into the guest book thing either. That being said, I do believe that mom is, so I will probably have one since I have already taken so many traditional wedding things away from her already! =)

     
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    taylorma5    July 31, 2010  

    I'm not going to have a guestbook, but we are putting out 4x6 cards for people to write their well-wishes on.  This way, we can mingle these in with picture in the photo album. I figure we'll appreciate them more that way.

     
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    PancakesNLeosMom    October 10, 2010   Germantown, MD

    We're not having a guest book either. We are having an autumn wedding so we are going to get a japanese maple tree and have little cards where people can sign their name and write a message and hang their card on our tree. That way we can keep the tree and keep the cards for however long we want and not have a book that we will only look at 5 times ever.

     
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    Beronicab    May 1, 2010   St. George, UT

    We opted not to do the guest book. Who looks at those anyway??? We chose to do a picture frame with a large mat and have people sign around our photo. Plus we can always hang it in our new place!!!

     
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    We are having guests take home a pre stamped envelope with a recipe card inside. They can fill it out at the wedding or  mail it to us once we get our new address.

     
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    Ms iPhone    October 23, 2010   Southern California

    We're having an Old Havana themed wedding. I didn't want the traditional guest book either. I bought about 100 old vintage Cuban postcards and will have each guest write us a message with wedding advice, well wishes or whatever they'd like and then put it inside a mailbox we purchased. We're planning on using the mailbox in our first home.

     
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    Vonnegurl    June 12, 2010  

    We're not doing a guestbook. But we are doing Make a Wish/Take a Wish.

    We have a Japanese theme (b/c we fell in love in Japan) and came up with a bunch of Japanese proverbs to put in the "Take a Wish" vase. Then we used scrap paper from the invites for the Make a Wish cards. Here's a pic:

    Anyone NOT having a guest book? :  wedding Picture 3

     
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    monitajb    July 17, 2010   Sacramento

    No guest book. I'm thinking about instead having people sign smooth river rocks with their well wishes, and using the rocks in a clear vase back home. Haven't fully thought it through, but thought it could be neat. Something that I would actually look at.

     
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    skibobrown    July 31, 2010   CA (wedding in Bar Harbor, ME)

    No Guest book for us either!  I also often forget to sign them at friends weddings, and I doubt we will look back at a guest book very often anyways.  I will probably hold on to all of the cards that we receive though...

     
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    Cricket1524    September 4, 2010   Burbank, CA

    None for us either! We're contemplating doing a twist on prayer flags and have everyone write down wishes for us on those.

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    No guestbook here! We're going to have a faux-tobooth and we're just going to be asking guests to use that as an alternative to the guestbook :-)

     
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    SweetAdelineXO    June 5, 2010   NJ

    I am having a guestbook, but instead of the traditional "sign your name here" type, we are putting it next to the photobooth with photo corners so guests can include a photostrip with their signature or note. Thought that might be fun.

     
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    missmouse29    July 2011   NWOntario, Canada

    I don't think we'll bother having a guest book at the reception, people rarely sign anything other than their name any way.

    We are considering having best wishes bowl or something, but will probably just put something together with photos after the weddingrather than before.

     
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    iswimibikeirun    May 15, 2010   Houston

    I saw these photo mat frames you sign with a diamond tipped pen at a Bridal Show and thought it was cool.  I showed them to FI and he liked the idea too (I had thought about having people sign quilt squares).  We're going to get the biggest one.  I should order it now!

     
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    pinkypromise    November 27, 2010   Dallas, TX

    We are having a guestbook/scrapbook. I want to buy an album that I can mount pics and keepsakes of ours that I have saved over the years. I will have someone taking digital pics of our guests to be mounted onto the book also with photocorners and guests can sign by their pics. This way I figure I will actually look at the thing after the wedding.

     
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    Smurfin    May 21, 2010   TX

    we're using the guest photo frame. they have some cheap mats at michael's.

     
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    bridegrl    October 9, 2010   Monterey County, California

    we're doing random shaped cards in our wedding colors. There will be a lantern for people to put them in (you can use a vase or something like that). after, I'll put them into our wedding scrapbook along with a copy of our invite and pictures and such...I think it's a more creative idea than a regualr book

     
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    Dancy905    February 5, 2010  

    Nope. I don't think it's necessary and like PP's said so one really signs it anyway and I don't think we'd ever look at it. I rarely ever sign the book at a wake, nevermind at a wedding. I never know what to write on those things, I don't want to put my guests through the same.

     
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    WDWBride    March 3, 2010   Walt Disney World

    We didn't do a guest book, but something more like a Quaker Marriage certificate. Something I can frame and now hang in our house!

    Check out my blog post about it here:

    http://lifeloveanddisney.blogspot.com/2010/02/with-friends-and-family.html

    And a picture of my Maid of Honor signing the finished product:

    Anyone NOT having a guest book? :  wedding Ry%3D400

     
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    BusyBride2Be    November 6, 2010   La Jolla, CA

    Well I didn't care one way or the other until I was watching a show and this couple had a really pretty "picture" up on their wall in a gorgeous gold frame. When the camera got close to it you could see written in gold ink on black paper were"Congratulations on your wedding!"  "We love you!" things like that and I loooved it!! Sooo I'm pretty sure that's what we are going to do! Minus the gold since that isn't in our color scheme.

     
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    Toffee    January 15, 2011   Hayden, Id

    We're buying one of the signing guest mats from BBB. I was going to just buy everything seperate, but I priced it out and it would cost more to do it that way if I use my coupon for BBB and if I don't use the coupon it'll be the same price, so I'd rather just buy the package.

     
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    twalila    May 2010   Ohio

    We're doing a platter for signatures and fabric swatches for messages/well wishes to be quilted together at a later date (once I learn how to quilt...so much later)

     

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