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posted 1 year ago in Parties
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    I can't fathom the idea of having a party somewhere that's catered. We were thinking of just getting all of our friends together for a night out to Dave and Busters. We wouldn't be paying for plates or drinks. It would just be like a get together with a hey we're getting married feel.

     
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    arenyth    May 14, 2011   planning in CA, wedding in NJ

    Yea I don't see why not. We didn't even bother with an engagement party so I'd say we went the untraditional route lol :) I love D&B though I'd have every party there if I could!

     
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    Catherine    July 9, 2011   Ottawa

    I don't even know if ours counted as an engagement party, but we had just gotten engaged and moved back to the country, so it was more of an impromtu welcome home/congrats party. And it was a backyard barbecue. But it had all of our friends and family and was super fun! I don't think 'tradition' matters for engagement parties. It's whatever you want to do.

     
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    amandab    April 9, 2010   FL

    you can do whatever you want. My aunt threw us our engagement party about 8 months after we got engaged because we live far from our families. But it was just a backyard BBQ and pool party! My aunt cooked all the food...it was wonderful! Casual and relaxing!

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    I've never been to or known someone who actually had an engagement party, so I think you are safe with something less formal :-)

     
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    sassy411    November 27, 2010   SoCal

    We didn't do an engagement party at all.

     
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    Beluga    July 16, 2011  

    We didn't do one. A few people offered, but we said no, for a few reasons. Our families live somewhere else, and we couldn't fly home just for a party. Also, we thought having one months after the engagement was weird. We didn't want to have one here because our friends here are graduate students who live at the poverty line, and if we had an "engagement party" it really wouldn't be anything more than our usual Friday potluck and games party. Finally, some highschool friends of ours had an engagement party and it just seemed a little over-the-top - not our style. How many parties do we need thrown in our favour, anyway? 

     
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    angiexox    July 9, 2011   Seattle, WA

    In my circle of friends we dont really do engagement parties.  I am not sure why bc we all love a reason to have a party.  A get together sounds great.

     
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    2dBride    October 6, 2009   Washington, DC.

    We never had an engagement party.  By the time people got around to organizing things, they just made them bachelorette parties.

     
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    CupCakeMeg    December 18, 2011   Orange County, CA

    We opt'd for a picnic in the park! =] Finger Foods and Games and Convos! =] 

    I thought it went naturally great! 

     
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    fuschiasparkles    November 4, 2011   FL

    We had a party at our house hosted by my mom and brother..it was a Mexican theme so we had pina coladas, margaritas, and TONNNS of mexican food!! FI and I even dressed in bright colors and took a tequila shot lol. It was a lot of fun!! There are no rules to this kind of thing,..do what you want :) I think the Dave and Busters idea is great!

     
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    MissIntent    January 7, 2012  

    We had a similar engagement party to what you're thinking of, and it was a blast.  FI and I met at a party, but didn't start dating until a few months later, after he invited several people over for drinks after hanging out at a local dive bar.  Everyone else backed out, we stayed up all night talking, wa la.

    Anyway, after we got engaged and people were asking "When's the party!?", we just arranged a get together at that bar.  30 of our friends helped take over the patio and we had a great time, very informal, just a celebration.

     

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