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    MrsCox2B    March 13, 2011   Delaware

    I dont know about you ladies but I am SO over this whole planning process. Is this normal?

    My engagement is 29 months long with 8 months to go. I dont know if its because its a been a long engagement or if the family drama or the fact that its a destination wedding and there isnt really a whole lot for me to do besides coordinate ideas to my coordinator.

    I'm just over it and want to be married already.

    Anyone else feel this way or am I crazy?

     
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    SanDiegoAli    September 18, 2010   San Diego

    Holy long engagment! I've been engaged for about 19 months so far with 2 to go and I definitely have my "I'm over it" phases.

    Your lucky in that you still have enough time left where you can take a break for a while and just chill.

    Good luck!

     
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    missmouse29    July 2011   NWOntario, Canada

    Oh I feel you!

    I have been engaged since 07, and now that we have finally got into the whole ridiculous planning process I am so, SO over it. I actually asked my S.O. yesterday if we could just say F!*k it to our families and go to city hall.

     

     
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    Mrs.MedinaJr    November 11, 2011   Houston

    I AM SOOOO OVER IT AND THE FAMILY DRAMA!!!!

     

    I just finished my guest list and i am so proud of myself but it took 2 days!!! whattha?!? 2 days?!!?

    i am ready to elope in vegas or mexico heck!

     
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    spaganya    September 4, 2010   Arlington, VA/wedding in Williamsburg, VA

    im so over it and mine is also about 6 weeks away... FML...

     
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    rabbit    September 3, 2010   Milwaukee, WI

    50 days to the wedding and I too am SO over it! I tell anyone who asks that if I knew then what i know now, i'd have eloped! SO much stress!

     
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    missjyc    September 18, 2010   macomb, michigan

    DAMN that's a long engagement props to you and your patience! i'm runnin on a 13 month engagement with 2 months to go and i am DYING!!!!! i've BEEN over this planning process for the last few months. i just want the planning to be done. and the big day to be here!

     
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    MrsCox2B    March 13, 2011   Delaware

    im so glad im not the only one!! I just feel like we have been engaged for way to long and it has been our topic of discussion for far way too long and im ready to just get married.

    another reason- we are paying for it ourselves and needed the long engagement to save. so i am so ready to be done with the wedding and be able to not save! id love to decorate our home and do some landscaping, maybe put a deck on the house. so many things i want to do! haha.

     

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    I am SO sick of it--just want the wedding day (and the reception and the honeymoon!) to be here already.

     
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    jedcaj    January 2, 2012  

    I am  very over it! I feel like it just keeps adding so much stress and drama into my life. I feel bad last night even my best friend who is in the wedding and helping plan my bridal kept asking me if specifics about it and I just told her that I honestly don't care that I just want to get it out of the way, and what ever she picks out is fine because I feel like I try to get involved in that too it's one more thing on my plate and just going to add to my stress even more lol

     
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    jtsing      

    I am there with all of you! I am completely over the planning, and ready for the big day (even though I fear I will miss the planning after the wedding) we have 11 weeks left and been engaged a year already (15 months total engagement). Had I known now I would have had our wedding 9 months after engagement!

     

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