Anyone pierced "down there"? (Lots of TMI!)

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
10384 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Have you looked into what happens to those holes during childbirth? I can imagine things get stretched in a very uncomfortable way!

Post # 4
409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I had a vertical hood piercing (took it out when I got pregnant). Your lips don’t factor in to a hood piercing, so I’m not sure if you are thinking of a different piercing, or just don’t have the correct terminology. The best way to know if it will work with your anatomy is to go to a reputable piercing shop and ask! For what it’s worth, it was one of the least painful and fastest healing piercings I’ve had done. I loved having it and was sad to take it out. 

Post # 6
449 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@echapman:  I just googled it and all of the results that showed up the women have definite innies. Go have a google. Ick I don’t think I would be showing a q-tip into my clit. ouchies lady-bro! Go in for a quick consult! I had to have one when I was going to get my nipples pierced.

Post # 8
1431 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Gorse Hill, Surrey, UK

I’ve had once for the past 7 years, me and my best friend were going to get matching tattoos but could agree on a design so we went and got VCH piercings together!

most professional pierces are very skilled in working with people in all shapes and sizes, and will most  likely recommended a way in which they can accommodate you. I know of few people who have have had curved bar bells instead of straight in VCH piercings for fit and comfort.

Pain wise it was no different to an ear piercing, in fact it was probably easier as the tissue down there is softer. It felt a bit strange for about a week, and the I pretty much forgot about it. Due to being softer and more blood vessels in that area the healing time is much faster than ears or other places. My piecer also so used a numbing gel before hand, and it felt like a sharp pinch when the needle went through.

i don’t even know I have it anymore, but I love the look of it. I don’t think it heightens sensation at all though, so don’t expect the ground to shake the first time you ‘try it out’ lol, it’s just a bit exciting to begin with really.

just make sure you research who will be doing the piercing and thathey’rey have experience in it and you will be fine 🙂

Post # 9
449 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@echapman:  I haven’t done it quite yet! I’m keep chickening out lol. You are so much braver than I getting your lady business pierced! My pain tolerance is super super low 🙁

Post # 10
9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@echapman:  Just so you know, there is also a risk of decreased sensitivity. It isn’t all rainbows and butterflies, I assure you. A friend of mine has one.

Post # 11
2783 posts
Sugar bee

@echapman:  I don’t have it, but a friend of mine does an she swears it didn’t hurt at all.

Post # 13
2365 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I had a vertical hood piercing done.  FAR less painful than my nipples actually – probably because it was just one piercing instead of two, but the healing time was much faster as well.  I’ve had nipples (twice), ears and the vertical hood done.  I am very much an innie with atiny hood – I’m half asian, and I’ve got that standard itty bitty parts thing going on. Yay for Mom’s genes! Personally, I think it looks WAY better on small parts than large, but that’s my biased opinion. 

So, here’s my take on it – with the 5 minute wonder guy, the piercing was fun.  It’s also nice if your guy is on the smaller side and there just isn’t a whole lot going on.  However, if your guy lasts more than 15 minutes, or is a bit on the more…vigorous side, there’s going to be some seriously painful bruising afterwards. Even when I tried the curved ones, after about 20 minutes of heavy action, it HURT.  There are serious potential risks, I didn’t have any problems, but it’s certainly something to consider.


Post # 14
878 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I got it done… I LOVE it!! I’ve hard it for 9 years!

im not going to lie… It’s a painful experience but only lasts seconds!!

I haven’t experienced any decreased sensitivity down there… If anything I find that it has increased sensitivity down there I absolutely love it LOL

Post # 15
448 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I have a VCH.

(Had one since I was 18 – and it’s still there. FH really likes it)

Didn’t really hurt. Actually my ears hurt more (but then I’m weird) 


I like it and never had any issues with it – decreased feeling, painful after less than gentle sex- nothing like that. 


Same as what everyone else said – go to someone who knows what they are doing, not a piecing you want to go wrong


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