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Hi Bees!
A little bit of a random question. Although I am no longer confident in my Hindi-speaking ability, I still understand a bit of it.
Mr. Tacos speaks farsi fluently and I will start learning after this year. It's a little daunting because their enunciation is foreign to the Hindi I've learned, though there are some shared words. We're hoping to raise our future child to be fluent in farsi and english.
How many of you speak other languages? Do you plan on incorporating them into your future family?
I wish I did! My FI is from Moldova (tiny country near Russia) and he and his parents speak Russian fluently. We do have the Rosetta Stone, so I just need to actually sit down and learn, since he definitely wants our kids to be fluent in Russian as well--and I don't want to be the only non-Russian speaker in our family!
Mr. W speaks sinhalese, russian, and a bit of french. I know a handful of italian. Since his parents speak english, I think Ill just stick to speaking english with them.
I am half Korean and my grandmother (who only spoke Korean) helped raise me and my sister starting when I was 2 years old. I grew up speaking, reading and writing Korean fluently. However, after my grandmother passed, I lost a lot of my ability.
I think it is so great to be able to speak another language, especially if it's a part of your culture. When my FH and I have children, we want my aunt (who speaks Korean fluently and will watch our children) to speak Korean only to our children.
My first language is Spanish, and my family speaks Spanish with very very little English. Fiance speaks only English, has been trying to learn Spanish and he can understand some written Spanish and some spoken Spanish if it's slow and well enunciated, but he's far from fluent.
If we ever have kids, I'd like for them to be bilingual too. We have friends who are trying to do this by having one parent speaking to the child in one language exclusively and the other parent speaking in the other language exclusively, but this seems like it requires both parents to be fluent in both languages, so we're definitely not there yet.
I speak Polish, and have been pushing Mr. Pudding to learn. Despite the fact that he's visited Poland twice, he's kind of sluggish about it. I keep teasing him that I will bad mouth him to our kids in Polish if he doesn't learn :P
I know a lil bit of French (took it all through HS) but not enough to speak more than like 10 sentences and a handful of words. I want to learn another language so badly! I've been thinking about getting Rosetta Stone or a similar program for fun, I heard it works really well.
@hilsy85- how is Rosetta Stone? I think we have the french one, and I wouldnt mind brushing up on my italian either. Anyone else tried this?
@mmmtacos- it certainly is! And, it makes travel a lot more fun!
@pudding--that is totally my fear! Not so much that he'll bad mouth me, but that he and the kids will gang up and play practical jokes, lol 
@Arancia--I haven't actually started using it yet, lol...I've been lazy about it. But I would like to learn at least a few phrases for the wedding so I can speak to his relatives, and hopefully give part of a speech in Russian--I think his parents would really appreciate that.
I used Rosetta stone for some Hindi. I learned more from that than I did from my 5 Indian room mates (you saw that correctly... 5). I eventually sold it after realizing I didn't have a need for fluent Hindi. And because I never used it. :)
I'm nearly fluent in German. Though my accent could use work. I'm harsh on myself since I'm the first person born outside Germany on my mother's side in hundreds of years. I never really use it much exept family. Or when FI makes me translate, haha! Grr, had to translate like all of Inglorious Basterds to him last night, haha! And yes, and future children will speak German. Well I guess they couldn't (decisions really up to them) but then my grandma (Oma) won't be giving them their trust accounts. Yeah, I have a super German family...
I want to learn another language, especially spanish since it seems like the next dominate language after english in America. Maybe I'll try the Rosetta Stone but I hope it really works!
ooh ooh me!!!
I've got a smattering of Spanish (I can understand about 80%, although it's been years since I spoke it (living in LA) so I'm rusty in the speaking department), a bit of French (college french + a semester in the Loire Valley - again, I understand a lot more than I can say), and I'm conversational and almost newspaper-fluent in reading in Mandarin!
That last one is the one I'm proud of, 'cause I worked my bum off to acquire it. :D
Being more than mono-lingual is awesome! I love it :)
I refuse to learn spanish. Hopefully that doesnt sound too harsh, but seriously- when in Rome. If Im traveling to a country with a different language, Ill take a dictionary and at least learn the phrase "I dont speak ____, do you speak English?" However, I would never MOVE to another country and not learn their native tongue- and use it. I, personally, dont like how spanish is becoming so dominant in the USA. (My personal opinion...)
@Arancia I'm with you on that. Although I work next to the Mexican Consulate here, and they're always speaking spanish around me in the elevators/garage, so I almost wish I knew if they were talking about me! :)
I used to know Italian after studying abroad in Sicily (Taormina) but lost it. FI took YEARS of French and still knows some but we're in the same boat. We'd love to learn another language (probably Italian) together at some point through a class or Rosetta Stone!
Arancia, I understand what you're saying to a certain point. I wouldn't try to move to a country where I can't speak the dominate language but the reality is that's whats happening here. As a result, someone who does speak both languages is going to be more marketable and at an advantage when it comes to things like jobs and so on. It kinda sucks but it never hurts to know another language anyway
I am fluent in Hebrew and Ancient Greek and Latin, but those aren't spoken. I live in Germany, Rosetta Stone failed me personally, but I can understand German better each day, but speaking it kills me and no one seems to understand what I say anyway. I want my kids to learn Hebrew so that is the plan.
I'm so jealous of all the languages you guys know!
My husband is in seminary and knows ancient greek and hebrew pretty well, but after the alphebet I'm totally lost.
We'd both like to learn dutch (my family's ancestry) and italian for the fun of it!
Wow..i wish i knew more languages..I do completely understand tagalog (filipino language) and can kind of speak..but i wish i were fluent in the language...i would love to learn spanish though...
I'm conversational in French! I write it and read it better than I understand it, though. I talk to myself in the car in French.
Mr. KM... he knows Greek and Hebrew (from seminary, like latte!) and is gearing up to learn Danish...
I'm fluent in English and German. I was born German, but did most of my schooling in the US, so my English writing skills are definitely better. FI is working hard at learning some German, so he can understand what my family is saying about him!
I speak Japanese pretty decently but I understand about 90% of everything I hear. I refer to myself as a toddler, I can understand everything my parent says but when i want to communicate, im very limited in vocabulary! ;)
My husband is Japanese and none of my In laws speak english SO we only speak Japanese. Its very helpful because when we have children they are required to learn japanese!
I sometimes wish I knew another language, but just don't have the drive to learn it. I really do need to take up Spanish, though, as Spanish speaking countries are pretty easy to access (vacation!) from where I'm located, and there is such a huge popoulation of Spanish-speaking people here.
We have a good friend who manages a horse farm (racing), and in case you aren't familiar, means there are mostly Mexican workers underneath him. He understands just about everything, and can speak it pretty good, but the really cool thing is that his son (who is 5) is really fluent. All of the employees only speak to him and spanish, and one of the men's wife often babysits for them, which means she only speaks spanish to him, too.
The funny thing is, he only associates spanish with them, and if his father asks him something in spanish, he pretends not to know what he's saying. I think he thinks it's some sort of secret language between them. :)
My professor in Italy had his son with him, and he spoke fluent French, Italian, and English (his dad is Italian, was born there but raised in France, and then moved to FL for grad school and met his wife.)
We were on a bus with the prof's fam going to see a mountain or something, and one of the guys was saying how he needed a haircut badly. And the little kid goes "Yes, I also have to go to the coiffiour!" (Spelling is off but it was basically the french word for hairdresser- SO CUTE!)
I speak fluent french some italian and I can understand spanish. when I was in elementary school my parents moved because my city has 3 public language immersion schools k-12. French was the first one with an opening!
I took 5 years of french in school, and was able to speak and understand really well. Now I've lost most of it. My grandmother taught me polish, but since I didn't practice I lost most of that too. I would love to be fluent in another language so we could raise our kids to be bilingual. There is an asian carry out in the same complex as my work and their little 4 year old boy speaks both vietnamese and english extremely well. He even translates to his grandfather! What an amazing way to grow up.
I speak Greek and Spanish fluently. I'm so so with my Italian, but I wish I could practice more! I am going to start studying my French again soon--I've always wanted to speak 5 languages before I turn 30, and (eep!) there's not much time left!
The mister speaks basic Arabic, and I'm starting to pick it up. And thankfully, he understands a ton of Spanish.
What are we gonna do when we have kids?? Hopefully, we'll have my mom and aunt to speak Greek. My dad and uncle to speak Spanish. His uncle to speak Arabic. I'll probably switch back and forth from Greek to Spanish in the house. And they are on their own if they wanna learn anything else! Worse comes to worse it's tutoring, and hopefully sending/taking them to Greece or Ecuador for vacations.
i've been trying to learn korean for YEARS. seriously, years. i already told my mom that i want her to speak to my future kids only in korean so they can learn it but i'm still working on it for me. even my guy started learning korean!
I like to say 4.5 languages. hehe.
I speak English, Cantonese, Mandarin and Fujianese. I took Spanish for 5 years but have lost a lot of it.
I really want to learn Japanese!
@winter443- you are totally right about the marketability of knowing multiple languages. In Toronto, most job listings say "bilingual a plus." However, its French/English that are widely used in Canada. Ill probably pick up French before Spanish though- I dont know what it is, Im just anti learning Spanish! (However, knowing Italian gives me a hint of an advantage with Spanish.)
German and Hebrew for me! Learning biblical Greek next year. (:
I could get around with my spanish, but its not pretty. I can read it okay, but speaking not so much. I can sort of recognize words (written) in french and italian, but thats just cuz I guess from what I know of Spanish. So I'm only fluent in english.
Fiance is also only fluent in english, but does know some spanish like meself. He can recognize some German because he took it in H.S. He's trying to learn Russian right now...one of his coworkers/friend is Russian so he likes to practice with him.
I did 5 yrs of french at high school. the first two years the teacher didn't give us a good grounding so I found it very confusing. I'd got the hang of it and was doing well when I left, now i've forgotten it. I can understand sentences and stuff and come out with a couple of phrases, but I really struggle with sentence construction.
Tomorrow morning I'm starting a sign language course :)
I was in French Immersion in middle school and studied it throughout high school. I also took Spanish in high school and a bit in University.
I can read and write Greek fairly flently. My parents made sure that I maintained their native tongue.
@ gingerlex: I took 2 semesters of ASL in college, and it's really a fun to learn. I can't remember much now, but the really amazing thing is that you can learn a lot very quickly and really after about a semester, you can hold a decent conversation. We were lucky in that a deaf group met in our area once a week and they were used to our professor's classes showing up to converse. It made it easy to pick up when you have someone to use it with!
I took five years of French through middle and high school, and at best, I've remembered afew words and phrases, but that's it.
I wish I could speak Spanish fluently because it's so widely used, but alas, I'm a one-language girl. Sighh.
I'm always tempted to get Rosetta Stone, but it's so expensive!
waooo...should i feel offended??? i cant believed what i read about Spanish here. im a Spanish teacher, i teach adults and kids Spanish as a second language. Im a native Spanish-speaker and living in Puerto Rico my childhood found myself listening people speak English all around even that in puerto rico spanish is the primary language. i never thought that the people speaking english were talking about me (i have better self esteem). i did understood that to go further in this life i needed to learn English. My English may not be perfect but it help me a lot in my professional and personal life. i came to live in US three years ago and found job in three weeks and what it help me was being bilingual.
i didn't stop there! i decided to learned Italian, French and Chinese. and why?? not because i thought italians, chinese or french people were talking about me or in US everybody were talking this language. I learned because i wanted to have the knowledge to comunicate will all kinds of people without discrimating. is human the will to learn and keep learning. the world is changing and soon English will not be the second language in the world. if the world is changing we need to change with it or go live under a rock!!!
sorry if my honesty sound harsh but i DO feel angry when somebody without any logical reason don't like a language. different language open the door to the world.
@Magenta - Wepa, another Puerto Rican here! :D
I agree with you. I mean, to each their own really, but I can't help but be slightly hurt when I hear comments like that... :-\
Anyhoo, I've already posted here about my languages, but since people are also posting about the languages they wish they could speak or have tried to learn, I'll add that over the years I've tried to learn Polish, Russian and Japanese but I've only managed to learn a few words/phrases and by now I've forgotten most of what little I learned of the first two :-( It seems that it's harder to learn a new language as an adult than as a child...
Funny anecdote -- a professor I had in college who had been living in Puerto Rico for nearly 30 years spoke Polish, Russian, Swedish, German and English, but he refused to learn Spanish. He got around with English, Spanish swear-words and "quiero un cafe con leche, gracias". His reasoning for not learning Spanish was that he already knew too many languages and if he learned one more he'd have to make room for it and then he'd forget one of his other languages...
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