- 3 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
Well I was hoping that I could still do the pact even after I got engaged but after I found out the other shocker (pregnancy), wedding stuff and wedding planning isnt even on my mind anymore. To be honest, I havent even looked at wedding stuff since I have found out I am pregnant. Now I’m trying to be prepared to have a baby and to me, a wedding isnt priority anymore. Its crazy to think how much my views have changed. At first I was dissapionted that a baby happened before my FI and I were married because I wouldnt be able to use the savings for the wedding, I would have to use it for my pregnancy (that sounds terrible to say) but now all I care about is the health of the baby and bringing him/her into this world as safely as possible and the stress of trying to plan a wedding at the same time, wouldnt be healthy for me or the little tadpole. I’m already stressed as it is! I am honestly an emotional wreck. I would love to keep on doing the pact but I feel as if I have nothing I want to talk about thats wedding related any.
So I would like to pass on the shut it up pact to someone else. All of you waiting bees are great and so supportive and I hope you all understand. If you would like to take it over, please personal message me and I’ll announce it. Thanks guys for all that you do! I’ll still get on here and check up with everyone and see how everyone is doing. I do miss thinking about wedding stuff and pretend planning (before I was engaged) and hopefully after the tadpole is here then I will be able to focus on having a wedding.