(Closed) Anyone with children before marriage?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
115 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Yes I have 2 kids and we are finally getting married nexy year. I’ll let you know if things are different after marriage.

Congrats on your big day.

Post # 4
2196 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I have a child from a previous relationship and we will have one together before we are married. I never believed in getting married because you were pregnant either (thank goodness).

I don’t have parents (deceased and not around) so we will be paying for it ourselves. I joke about getting chummy with my wealthy distant relatives all the time though haha.

I’m happy with how things have turned out,  I know it’s scary for a lot of ladies to have children without that “commitment” but I really think it’s more of a state of mind than the actual wedding.

Post # 6
3303 posts
Sugar bee

We have one together and I had one before. He wants more, but we need to get married first.

Post # 8
2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Our Dirty Delete will be 8 next Friday (!!!!), and we just got married last week.

Post # 9
82 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Fi has two boys from a previous marriage and now we have our 8 month old.  We talked marriage before our little one came along so him coming along didn’t make use choose to get married.  He came along because of our love.

Post # 11
1519 posts
Bumble bee

We have full custody of my fiancé’s daughter. I think it will make us feel like more of a family because we’ll all have the same last name and no one will have any idea that she’s not mine (although I think most people assume since she calls me mom). It’s nice going out and having our wedding rings on and feeling like a unified family. It’s a not a huge change, though. 

Post # 12
121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

We have been together for 8 years and have 2 children and we just tied the knot last month.

Although we haven’t been married long, we both feel its a bit different. We have thought of ourselves as married for years because we lived as a commited couple and were raising our family together. Now that we are married, we would both agree that it’s different. We have always loved eachother but something just changes when you promise marriage vows to eachother. It feels more secure and real. At least to us. I didn’t think I could love him anymore than I already did but I do.

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