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Apartment Guest Rant...rudest guest ever!

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    starcharades    December 31, 2011   Philadelphia

    So one of my fi's friends came to stay with us. We have a very small 1br apt so we need to keep things clean and organized at all times so that theres room to move. Anyhow his friend came over yesterday. First thing he did was put his stuff in our bedroom. And not in one pile but scattered around. Then he peed on the toilet seat and left it up and did not clean it. Then he used up all the toilet paper. He then didn't offer to help when we were getting sheets out to make the couch up for him. He then taped over my taping of Brothers and Sisters with some espn highlights. Then today he moves all his clothes all over the living room. Uses up all the toilet paper again. Doesn't offer to help when we are folding the sheets from the couch. Beads from the stuffing of his coat flew everywhere. He continued to shake it so more fell out. He didn't offer to help clean them. He yelled at me when I suggested he wear a sweater if his coat was broken. And he got mad at my fi when he didn't pack his friends bag just right...I'm sorry but if you are 25 then pack your own bag. I am just so glad he is gone and it's back to just my fi and me.

     

    UPDATE: Yes my fi is totally on my side and is astonished by his friends behavior. We both agreed he is never staying over again.

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    Wow, sounds like he's very used to having people do things for him. I would have strangled him after about 2 hours, I have a very low tolerance for selfish people though. Good on you for toughing it out!

     
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    jennybirdy    June 5, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    So, is this really your FI's friend??  He sounds like a child!!  Hopefully your FI agrees with you about his behavior and doesn't try to make excuses for him.  I just can't imagine being friends with someone who sounds thoughtless and selfish!!

     
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    clarebee    August 21, 2010   Vienna, VA (wedding in Greensboro, GA)

    Ugh sounds stressful!! And how rude! I would be really irritated

     
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    Mrs. Dee to Bee    January 30, 2010   Louisville, KY (Wedding in TX)

    That guy doesn't even sound real. Wow, what a sucky guest. Glad he's gone!

     
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    mountain.bride    December 12, 2009   Australia

    Some "friend"! I think next time he asks to stay you guys might be out of town :)

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    Um, wow! That's insane! Sorry you had to deal with that!

     
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    eloping    May 23, 2010  

    what a prick and he would NOT be welcomed back into my home again after that 

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    Uh yeah, he wouldn't ever see or hear from me and my hubs again after that!

     

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