(Closed) Apathy?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Yep. I’m 4 months out and I just started getting back into the swing of it. I haven’t wanted to deal with any wedding crap the last couple months.

I think it goes in phases really. I guarantee that when I get to the less than a month mark, I will be sick of all of it too.

Post # 4
Member
1927 posts
Buzzing bee

Totally normal. I promise when the day comes you will be really happy and excited to celebrate with all the people you love who ARE there.

Post # 5
Member
762 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am having this too! I’m so over the wedding. I don’t want to do anymore planning. I think it’s ’cause all the “fun stuff” is done. Now, it’s calling the people that didn’t RSVP, sending checks, seating charts etc. Plus, everyone making demands, I want to bring a guest now, I want to sit with______. Ugh!

Post # 7
Member
3126 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

totally! the people want to talk wedding with you but you’re thinking and talking wedding all the time! but THEY aren’t, and they assume that’s what you want to chat about. You can be gracious and tell them how nice it is to spend time with them b/c you’ve been so stressed with wedding planning – that’ll change the topic some 😉

Don’t worry! it’s almost here. Totally normal..

Post # 8
Member
14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Yep totally normal

OUr venue had a 155 person minimum and we only had 125 people there. we paid for empty plates essentially

Post # 9
Member
2090 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I think this is totally natural. The amount I’m “into” the wedding ebbs and flows. (Like you said, I’m TOTALLY into the marriage bit!) Some days/weeks/months I’m totally into planning and thinking about every little detail. Other days/weeks/months, I’m like “whatever” or “screw the wedding, let’s run off to Tuscany and elope!!”.

The days I most feel like running off to Tuscany to elope are the days I have to write big checks to vendors, or deal with wedding related, family-induced drama.

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