(Closed) Appears to be spending money on the garden shed and not a ring!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee

@Bettyboo1982:  How do you know he hasnt? do u share accounts?  do u have a timeline 

Post # 4
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Worker bee

@Bettyboo1982: Lol this is funny, but MAYBE he bought the ring a long time ago so he is able to spend money on the shed 🙂

Post # 5
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Awe, I’m sorry because I feel you there! My boyfriend (now fiance) kinda did the same thing and bought a 3rd! car. I know he wanted something more reliable, but it seemed a little frivolous and I was upset. What he told me was, because he is generally very practical and straight forward and communicates everything with me, he was keeping engagement plans a secret because he was trying to be romantic and make it special. He also felt like because he had told me it was coming I should trust it’s coming as soon as possible. Me pushing him for information and then trying to assert my opinion about the ring, kinda took all the fun and some of the romance out of it and I’m kicking myself for kinda being an ass. As soon as he had enough money he went and bought the ring. The ring is the only big part of the wedding the guy has to himself usually. Let it be his, but at the same time, you’re a part of the engagement/wedding/relationship, and you should have some say over how fast or slow things are going. Just don’t push too hard like I did! Hope my experience helps and good luck!

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