(Closed) Appropriate? Or Not?

posted 9 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

1, i dont own pj’s so i guess if i was going it would be very inappropriate

2, where are you having dinner? maybe it wouldnt be appropriate for the other dinners

personally if it was me i would be a no on this – but then im not into the shower/bachelorette thing

goodluck

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

What kind of PJs are we talking? I’d pick something like yoga pants and a funny t-shirt. Not a nighty or anything.

I think it’s ok but I’m not personally a fan of the idea of going to DINNER in my PJ’s though! I’d rather get all dressed up for a "tame" bachelorette party and treat the bride to something fun like fondu. 

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I think going anywhere in your PJ’s is a highschool student thing.  You might pull it off if you were going for a spa day.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

i think i’d vote wierd. I’d go classy since some people might be embarassed to go out in jammies. maybe if you rented out a place but with other people there…

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

The only place I’d go in PJ’s is a Waffle House or IHOP. I’m sure there’s something more fun and less embarassing to do, even if it’s just a regular dinner with all the friends. 

I do like the "faux sleepover" idea. You could rent movies, eat popcorn, paint fingernails, even play truth or dare. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

We are doing a slumber party with an 80’s theme and dressing up 80’s and going out to dinner then back for the slumber party.  I guess it depends on where you are going to dinner if it would be appropriate to wear PJ’s (i.e. a fancy restaurant).  Id also make sure the other ladies are OK & comfortable with dressing in their pjs for dinner, some might not be.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2008

Honestly, I would not want to go to dinner in my PJs, it really doesn’t sound like fun to me! However, if you think the bride to be would love the idea,I would go along with it.    I am just not sure what that sounds like fun though!  I think it would be funnier to go to Appelbees dressed to the nine 0- everyone in cocktail attire looking glam, than to feel frumpy

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper

I think everyone was kind of given an "out" since she said "wear or bring your PJs."  Just bring them and tell her you’ll change when you come back from dinner.  Wearing PJs to BWW in your 30s?  Weird.  Seriously.

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Applebee’s in my PJ"S oh no way. Cant you guys just change into the pj’s after dinner? i think i would feel like a child going to dinner in my pj’s. Heck i wont run to the grocery store at 10pm in them. I think the slumber party idea is cute tho,def a girls thing. I would be afraid someone of importance would see me out in my pjs and before i knew it the local news stands would have it front and center the next morning..lol

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Totally weird. I would be embarrassed to wear my jammies out to dinner anywhere. I was even embarrassed to wear them to drop off my husband at the airport at 4 AM this morning!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - The Mountain Terrace, Woodside, CA

I agree with the others, it’s a pretty odd idea, and not something I’d want to do.  But I like the idea of getting totally glamed up in LDBs to go to Applebees, now that would be fun and different!  Is it to late to suggest that to your friend, gently, of course?

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

Lol! I love BW3’s (I wish we had one here) but I would not go there in my jammies. Other than that though, it sounds really fun!

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