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    o0olibelulao0o    April 14, 2012   Texas Hill Country

    And I don't know about ya'll but I still have SO much to do!!

    First of which is getting back in shape after the holidays!  Anyone else with me??

     

    Want to start a support thread?

     
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    courtney48    April 7, 2012   ga

    I am def wanting to get into wedding shape! With only about 3 months to go we all need to get on the ball!

     
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    alicia1745    April 21, 2012   Lake Mary, FL

    Most def!!! I am already down 17lbs but have another 10 or so to go.

     
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    o0olibelulao0o    April 14, 2012   Texas Hill Country

    @alicia1745: great job!!  I need to get the ball rolling!

    I'm hoping to be able to lose like 15lbs, 20 would be fabulous but I won't get my hopes up!

     
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    alicia1745    April 21, 2012   Lake Mary, FL

    @o0olibelulao0o: Thanks! I've since lost all motivation! haha

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    @o0olibelulao0o:  I totally agree with ya on that one! I have been SO bad over Xms holiday, to make up for it i've had to hit the gym every day to work it all off...things we do though huh.

    But it's worth it to look our absolute best on our day!

     

     
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    KMsBride    May 11, 2012   Cairo, Egypt

    @o0olibelulao0o: I'm right there with you!
    Let's do it, ladies! :)

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    I was doing really well pre-xmas, working out hard, now since Xmas has been I think i've gained a good 1-2kgs!! Not good....then theres New yrs around the corner so that will be another plateau lol..ahh well after New yr it'll be back on track again..doing gym again up to New yrs but wasting my time as i'll probably put it all back on from all the alcohol..not strong enough to say no to booze lol

     
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    KMsBride    May 11, 2012   Cairo, Egypt

    @Ana in NZ: LOL my thoughts exactly on New Year's and alcohol Laughing

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    @KMsBride: Yeah good and bad come with the holiday season right! i'll regret the consuming once i'm back working out after it all...but i know it's well worth it at the time lol

    Would love to hear how your progress (and the other bees) goes after the holidays....will be motivating to hear of everyones success with their weight loss stories! (not weight gain aye girls!)

     
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    DarleneP    April 6, 2012   New Orleans, LA

    I need to lose 10lbs and tone up!! Diet here I come! I have gained since the holidays ughh :/

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    @DarleneP: I doubt you're the only one :-P I too have also :-( Back to gym tomorrow!

     
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    wmontano77    April 21, 2012  

    Hi ladies, our wedding day is April 21 and I have 20lbs and lots of toning up to do.   Wish me luck. lol 

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    @wmontano77: I hear ya! yep lots of luck to ya, mines April 7th so 2 wks less to turn this body of mine into a lean mean, toned machine lol...i'm hoping to lose a good 5kgs...starting from today..now that new yrs is over and done here....all desserts/alcohol/bad foods are now all gone...thank god!

     
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    ST2011    April 7, 2012   Los Angeles, California

    @Ana in NZ: My wedding day is April 7th too! We're getting married in Palm Springs. I need to loose maybe 5 lbs but more importantly I needs some really serious toning in my arms belly and hips. I did P90x about a year ago and notice results after 2 months without weight loss (built muslce). I am worried that I might bulk up though, so I'm not sure if I should stick to that program again. I may do it in conjunction with cardio so it helps me stay lean. I generally eat pretty decently but the stress from my thesis (I'm in grad school) was really rough for me. I was eating out a lot, and even though I tried to eat "healthy" the results are really not glamours. My dress fits perfect right now, and only needs alterations in the bust area, so at least that's not an issue. I've been looking on Pinterst for lots of inspiration. I'm super anxious about this right now - I just really want to be happy with the way I look and feel physically on my wedding day.

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    @ST2011: I totally hear what you're saying!!! I hate that arms are always one of the biggest focus points and yet SO hard to get perfect! I've been doing lots of cardio and weights on my arms over last couple of mths and although i've toned up a bit it's not enough by far! I've started doing my pilattes dvd and after only 2 sessions after a long break i've noticed improvement already...so i'm definately keeping this in my routine..i know what you mean with the bulking up too...it feels SO good pumping the iron aye but downside is you are more bulky than toned...i'm glad your dress fits great though, that must be awesome!!..i've just purchased mine from the states (i'm in New Zealand) and I won't have it till February so I totally can't wait to try it on for the first time (i'll definately need length altered as i'm only 5'3 and it's 5'9). My tough areas are the same as you, hips are coming down slowly but arms...well you know the rest. And i'm doing a good variety of exercises on my tummy and noticing improvement....i don't think i'll ever have washboard abs and I don't mind, so long as it's semi flat then i'm fine with that.

    I understand when you say you want to look fab on your day, that's how I feel too as like the rest of the girls no doubt....keep it up though!! We can keep each other motivated then perhaps...My fi and out 5yr old did a great hike today up a mountain, so was good cardio then we came home and did our pilattes workout and after an awesome sweat up we had chicken and fried rice....not too fattening but high carbs probably..oh and a glass of red wine from new yrs...so a bit naughty tonight but ahh well...hitting the gym in the morning...i'm far from perfect...always have to have a lil treat here and there but i'll always try work it off where possible

     
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    courtney48    April 7, 2012   ga

    Its Jan 5th & im still slacking in starting my wedding diet! I plan on running today wish me luck. Hopefully I can loose about 5-7 lbs & REALLY tone tone tone!!

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    @courtney48: Hey twin! Have an awesome run, it can be hard to start with but once you're doing it you feel so much better at the end aye! Sending you some positive vibes to get ya going!!! Just think about all the jaws you'll drop when they all see you looking drop dead gorgeous on the day when you arrive (especially your darling), that's my motivation anyway..

    Yep lets tone tone tone all the way! I just got back from the gym and feeling good...having eggs for lunch and will have a smoothie for dinner....i'm pretty sure when we head out later i'll be having something naughty aswell but oh well, i'll work it off tomorrow...

     

     
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    mrshim    April 7, 2012  

    i have a TON! left to do... namely ORDER my dress!! yes, i just decided to get the one i saw and fell in love with at first. i tried to change it, but i just couldn't take it. thank goodness it only take a couple of weeks to get this one in. i'm going to have to go tomorrow to order it

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    @mrshim:  sounds exciting! I haven't got mine either..well i've ordered it but i've bought it from a shop in the CA (I live in New Zealand) and my work mate is heading to the States today and will bring it back with her (in 21 sleeps) and i'm SO excited...I can't wait to see it in person and to try it on!!

    Hope you gurls are going well with your preparations ;-)

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    @mrshim:  sounds exciting! I haven't got mine either..well i've ordered it but i've bought it from a shop in the CA (I live in New Zealand) and my work mate is heading to the States today and will bring it back with her (in 21 sleeps) and i'm SO excited...I can't wait to see it in person and to try it on!!

    Hope you gurls are going well with your preparations ;-)

     
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    Kenic315    April 21, 2012   Charlotte, North Carolina

    Hi ladies!  I just found this thread!  I'm so excited that our countdowns are finally into the double digits!  What does everyone have left to do?  When are you sending out your invitations?

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    @Kenic315:  I actually sent mine out before Xmas...shocking aye lol. Just wanted to give people plenty of time as i need RSVP's by mid February as i'm organsing personalised wedding favours which takes 6wks to order and dispatch (being made in Aussie and i'm in NZ)....and still I haven't had many RSVPs...very annoying!

    Got all the big stuff done, venue/reception all in one, photographer/videographer done, cake maker, wedding dress, bridesmaid dresses, honeymoon, pretty much the main stuff done..have to re-organise entertainment though as original one has fallen through but just smaller stuff like wedding vows and "on the day" stuff to be done..very exciting times ahead for us all though woohoo!!!! Hows your list going?

    Going hard with the gym/sports and exercise...lost 10kgs in 6mths so 3 more to go and i'll be a happy happy lady on the day...

     
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    o0olibelulao0o    April 14, 2012   Texas Hill Country

    I sent mine out at the end of January... Already getting some back even though the RSVP date is a month before the wedding.

    I've also lost about 10 lbs barely even trying... I need to actually work out more, but I've been eating really healthy so I'll take it!

     
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    unixfairy    April 14, 2012   Las Vegas

    My invites are going out V-day but we are having a small wedding and sent out STD so I have already heard back from some people.

    Getting so real and so close now!

     
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    ST2011    April 7, 2012   Los Angeles, California

    @Ana in NZ:  I've been miffed about the lack of RSVPs as well. C'mon people! We even put stamps on all our RSVPs and STILL only about half have been sent back.

    I am doing the little stuff as well at this point, ordering table runners, figuring out about wedding programs, making a bunting for my cake table, just little stuff like that. We are going to apply for our Marriage license this week. It's hard to figure out the little stuff though, like how many programs and printing names on placecards since we can't get all our RSVPs. We decided on doing f/u calls this week and although we've only asked a few people about it, we've already gotten some clarity. It's so funny how people decide they are coming to your wedding and accepted your invitation - but they don't think to tell you about it!

    We got our first wedding gift last week and it was super exciting! They got us an item off our registry - the Keruig coffee maker! We really, really wanted that since we don't even have a coffee maker.

    The girls are planning my bachelorette party in Temeculat so that is gonna be FUN! How about you girls? What's up with your Bachelorette parties?

     
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    CarolineM    April 14, 2012  

    My first invitations started arriving to my guests yesterday!  I got my first shower present today (thanks FSIL!). I have my bachelorette and shower in NY next weekend. Then shower #2 down here in FL the following weekend.  Followed by my first dress fitting while my mom is in town.  I decided she will be the only one that gets the honors of seeing me in my dress prior to the wedding.  I have my walk through with the caterer and the venue tomorrow afternoon.  I got my placecards and all the candles, still need to get some electric tealights.  Need to figure out table numbers... when I know how many tables.  What else?? Bought shoes this weekend, love them!  Time is flying, April will be hear before we all know it!

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    @ST2011:  I totally hear what you mean with the RSVP's! Yeah i feel like theres so much I want to be able to get finalised but can't till I have confirmation of names and numbers....so annoying, especially when I sent them out before Xmas...and yeah i'm the same, i've been told people are coming but by word of mouth..they haven't actually told us...very annoying!

    You sound like you're plans are coming along like mine...guess what, it was 2mths exactly for us on the 7th of Feb! how cool is that...and only not long for you other ladies too....woop woop lol

    As for my hens party (as we NZ girls call it) my BM's have been a little dissapointing and haven't organised what they planned to so i've decided I just want to have a big dinner with all my girlfriends (and family) and get merry and drunk and dance the night away...not the typical night but ahh well...we're not your typical couple..we've got a 5yr old son so we not doing everything the "traditional" way hehe..and that suits us fine ;-)

     

     
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    Ana in NZ    April 7, 2012   New Zealand

    @CarolineM:  that's SO cool you're having your Mum there with you...i'm sure she'll love that time alone with you too..

    i'm doing similar, my dress arrives home next week (7 more sleeps) and I can't wait! I want to try it on for the first time with just my Mum there, be nice to have that special time with her as everything has been mainly with me and my darling or me and the BM's so I want Mum to have this time with me...

    But awesome ladies, it's getting close now....very very close!! Yahoo!

     
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    MrsC2012    April 22, 2012   Texas

    Oy, don't remind me! Still need to find someone to do my hair and makeup as well as someone who will be the officiant. Those two things are stressing me out the most mainly because our ceremony needs that info asap and the makeup/hair person/people are needed in a few weeks for photos!

     

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