APRIL 2014 Brides! Where are you in planning?

posted 3 years ago in April 2014
Post # 3
13 posts
  • Wedding: April 2014

Booked a photog and took the enactment pictures. 

Post # 4
136 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014


I hear you, mine was 4 months from yesterday!!! I’m so excited but getting overwhelmed now. I still NEED to…

– Put invitations together and send 
– Purchase groom’s wedding band
– Register for gifts
– Look at tuxes for the groomsmen
– Get accessories for bridesmaids
– Get gifts for parents
– Schedule dress fitting
– Finalize menu with caterer
– Arrange day of transportation
– Decide on a hair salon and have trial
– Send thank you cards after bridal showers


Feels like I’ll never be able to finish it all! 


Post # 5
36 posts
  • Wedding: April 2014

This time last month I was really relaxed and felt that we still had plenty of time. But then December rolled in and I’ve started to feel a bit anxious that we have so much left to do. The biggest thing left to do is to book a band for the reception – we’ve been looking for ages and have had real trouble finding one that we like/is available that weekend/is in our budget. I do not like not having such a big thing unbooked 4 months out!

But…I know it will all come together (it has to!).

Post # 6
5087 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

I’ve still got to send invites, sort out songs cd, pay off our rings, get the boys suits. 

Yesterday we finalised catering – yay! 

Today I’m sick. Wedding prep 0 – sickness 1 

Post # 7
956 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

If it makes any of you feel better, we haven’t even decided what we’re doing yet. Except that it’ll be in April 🙂 But then we won’t be doing anything that involves much planning, so I’m sure it’ll be fiiiiine…!

Post # 8
387 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@misscupcake2012:  So far we have :

  • Caterer 
  • Wedding cake 
  • Day of coordinator 
  • Florist 
  • Event planner (Reception & ceremony decorations) 
  • Picked officiant 
  • Picked DJ 
  • Ordered BM dresses 
  • Started buying BM gifts 
  • Got my dress (still need veil, undergarments, shoes, garter, jewelry) 
  • Picked out FI & GM outfits 
  • Ordered 1 flower girl dress- need 1 more (older girl needs diff dress) 
  • Ordered ring bearer outfits 
  • Booked hair & makeup (myself & wedding party) 
  • Booked photographer 
  • Took engagement pics 
  • Sent out STD 
  • Ordered invitations (Semi DIY) 
  • DIY ceremony program template-need to print 
  • Picked out wedding bands-need to buy 
  • Picked Photobooth-need to book 
  • Waiting on pro pics to make guest book with engagement pics 

I have NO clue if I’m on a good time frame or not!  

So happy to see so many April brides! xo 

Post # 10
387 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@misscupcake2012:  I used Microsoft word! I thought about buying a template but ,like you, I thought “waste of money” 

I edited the word document to a “brochure” and printed it on kraft paper. Then I just folded a 8×11 in half. Craft stores also sell program paper and they tell you what to use on Microsoft. 

free fonts from dafont.com 

If you need any help let me know! 

Post # 11
5087 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

@misscupcake2012:  thanks for the well wishes. All the best with your planning. 

Post # 12
179 posts
Blushing bee

@misscupcake2012: I felt like spring_bee, and was somewhat relaxed until Dec rolled around…and I just realized christmas is 2 weeks from weds, new years 3 weeks and then we’ll officially be at the 90 day countdown. 

Just this week we purchased the wedding bands, booked the transportation, set up hotel room blocks. I still have to:

  • select caterer
  • purchase BM jewelry ( my gift to them)
  • choose tuxedos
  • book honeymoon suite
  • book plane tix for honeymoon
  • plan rehearsal dinner
  • gather guest list
  • address invitation
  • select bridal head piece
  • book make up & hair
  • select wedding  & reception music

Thankfully the list is getting smaller and smaller. Im just ready to get there now!


Post # 14
309 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014


I was happy to see this subject in the boards at first but when I started reading through it my stomach started feeling that fiery anxiety way!  I think I am SO behind.  And even the contracts/vendors I do have are just “booked” with no real set framework yet.  (DJ is booked but we have not discussed music, caterer is booked but we do not have a menu yet, etc) 

Here is where I’m at:

Venue booked, ceremony & reception same venue (half paid for)

Dress ordered (half paid for)

Bands purchased 

Officiant made legal officiant (uncle)

Guest List near complete

Have basic framework for ceremony but still need script 

Prelimiary meeting for invitations (follow up next week)

1 of 2 BM dresses ordered, this is not really on my “to do” list, the other BM will get hers when she gets hers.

BM Gifts almost done 

Caterer & DJ booked but zero plans have been established, 20% deposits paid)

Have ideas for most parents/siblings gifts but not purchased yet

I know what florist I will work with but only casually reached out to her so far (I already know her)

Hotel rooms blocked

Day of Coordinator (not paid yet)

Valet booked & deposit paid

Quote for shuttle buses between hotel & wedding but not booked

Honeymoon rentals booked.

What I don’t have:


Hair/makeup person

Add-ons like photo booth, etc.

Zero decor scheme

GM gifts 

Groom & GM attire

Family Gifts

Logistics (boarding our dog, hotel room for BMs to get ready, our own hotel reservations, afterparty location, morning after brunch location)

I had a perfectly nice cake tasting with a perfectly good company/sales girl but for some reason I never pick up the phone & book them!  I don’t know what that psychosis is about but it’s definitely like a “thing”, a weird thing I’m doing by not doing.

I was so freaked out by the dress (my dress) and procrastinated until last month.  Now I’m freaked out by photographer & decor.  

Oy vey…. all this stuff gives my nerves a run for their money!  

Will someone please tell me if I’m on track or way behind?  







Post # 15
179 posts
Blushing bee

yehyehgirl  Glad you made a list….I completely forgot about boarding our dog!!!Yell. I think you’re well on your way. You’ve got a lot done so far!

@misscupcake2012:  I’m so ready to get married, it’s like a kid the night before christmas. I’m ready to see if all that we planned will work together as we planned. I’m ready to be Mrs Groomzilla, I’m ready to start a family and there are 117 days in between me and that goal…..LOL.  I do stress about a few things here or there, but the anxiety of waiting is the most stress.  I feel like we’ve been planning and talking about this weddding forever. We started planning n Aug 2012. Let’d do it already 

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