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    KelliP    July 29, 2011   Canton, Ohio

    Ladies,

    I was wondering if anyone is weiring a veil for their encore marriage.  I wasn't planning on it, but have become captivated by the bird cage style and thought I would like to wear one during the ceremony.  I have heard lots of people say (at bridal shops, and in chatting with friends and family) that it's not considered "appropriate", but I also notice  that in many areas those old ideas a ebbing.  SOOOOOO...just wondered if anyone is wearing one! 

    This is sort of what I was thinking I'd like to wear...

    http://www.serephine.com/products/the-mallory-veil

    I could take out the little veil part in the front and leave the fascinator in my hair....I just love it and think its so dreamy and romantic...but I also don't want to look silly...I already feel like I'm pushing the limits a little bit by wearing a wedding dress, having a wedding, etc, etc, etc...(you know the routine :)

    :) Kelli

     

     

     
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    Snizzlebigs    May 21, 2011   Cottage Grove, MN

    I am.  I'm wearing an elbow length with blusher -- and YES I'm wearing the blusher!  I love the way they look.

     
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    KelliP    July 29, 2011   Canton, Ohio

    You go Snizzlebigs! I think I'm going to go for it tooooo! :))))

     
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    mkendrick    August 1, 2009   Las Vegas

    Whatever!  Go for it!!!! Those naysayers can go pound sand.  I wore a veil for my encore wedding for the ceremony. Are any fellow encore brides wearing a veil? :  wedding encore veil bird cage LM17 SmallAre any fellow encore brides wearing a veil? :  wedding encore veil bird cage LM19 Small Alone

     
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    KelliP    July 29, 2011   Canton, Ohio

    mkendrick!!!!!! You look BEAAAAUTTTTIFULLLL!!! WOWWWWW!

     
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    Snizzlebigs    May 21, 2011   Cottage Grove, MN

    @KelliP: Yayy!  Do it!

    @mkendrick:  You made a BEAUTIFUL bride!

     
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    georgiaann    December 31, 2011  

    Go for it!  I am wearing a veil, too.

     
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    Keisha In Love    March 31, 2012   Chicago, Illinois

    No veil- but -I am wearing fresh flowers with ribbon :) - that birdcage veil is LOVELY!  

     
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    PurpleUnicorn    April 19, 2011  

    i am not an encore bride, but i see nothing wrong with it!

     
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    cardus    October 27, 2012   twin cities, MN

    @KelliP: great minds think alike!  this is EXACTLY what i want to do too!  only i want my birdcage made of russian veiling instead of tulle, and i want to go all feathers with the fascinator, lol.

    appropriate my foot.  traditionally, veils had nothing to do with how many times you were married.  (actually, since most marriages were arranged and the couple never met before their wedding day, and brides were generally VERY young, they usually had more to do with hiding the brides tears, and making sure the groom committed to her before seeing her.)

     
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    lmm7rn    September 3, 2011  

    I'm wearing a veil for my encore wedding. Reason # 1 is that it's my FH's first wedding is he is very traditional. And Reason # 2 ......it completes the outfit! LOL

     
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    KelliP    July 29, 2011   Canton, Ohio

    @cardus...you really made me laugh out loud!!!!! HAAAAAA!!!! Well I won't be wearing a veil to hide my tears OR my ugly!   Wink

     
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    cardus    October 27, 2012   twin cities, MN

    @KelliP: Wink me neither

     
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    Oneeleven    April 7, 1992   Ontario, Canada, Getting married in the Mayan Riviera

    @KelliP:

    Not considered appropriate? Who gives two shits.  Wear what you want to wear. 
    Hearing stuff that like pisses me off. .

    I don't care if you've been married 10 times or if your an 80 year old first time bride, wear what you want.

     

     
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    sunstarsmoon    July 8, 2011  

    I am not wearing a veil, but will be wearing flowers in my hair.  I am getting married on a beach and I think the veil would drive me nuts blowng in the wind. Has nothing to do with me being an encore bride.

     
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    wolfpackforever    February 7, 2014   Reno-Tahoe Metro Area

    Yep. Anchored to the side by a Fascinator.

     
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    EncoreBridetoBe    February 2, 2013   Canada

    I'm wearing a veil and if you like the way veils look on you then wear one. To hell with what ppl is appropriate...it is a wedding not a government run opperation where strict protocal must be observed or lives are at stake.

     

    Besdies look at the pics of all the beautiful encore brides wearing veils on their big day!mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm                          kih∞˜,†§ o9o9999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999 m

     
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    EncoreBridetoBe    February 2, 2013   Canada

    ^dropped the keyboard....sorry

     
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    jjmomma    March 11, 2011  

    @mkendrick:  AMEN!!!  I wore a cathedral veil and I loved it!  I also wore white (well, ivory) and he cried his eyes out... :)

     
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    Sugaree      

    I bought a dress off of Ebay and it comes with a waist length veil, so I at least have the option.  My first veil was shoulder length and I always regretted not having something longer. 

     
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    MeAndDubby       California

    I haven't decided on what kind of veil I'll be wearing, but I'll be wearing one. 

     
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    Miss Gamer    December 31, 2016  

    I'm an encore and I got a cute little 1960's style veil that just poofs up and doesn't even hit my shoulders.  I think this will also work well with my short hair, short dress, and my planned Vegas elopement.  :) 

    I am also concerned about what people might say (huge Catholic family) but it is more of a flirty veil than a serious veil. 

    @MKendrick--gorgeous!

    @Cardus--thanks for clarifying the tradition.

     
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    unixfairy    April 14, 2012   Las Vegas

    @mkendrick: LOL it is your fault that I am wearing a veil - everytime I see your pictures I just swoon!!! Still trying to figure out if I am wearing the long 1 T which I think looks better with my face or the shorter 2 tier which looks better with my dress.

     

    But I am an encore bride over 40 and I am going to love wearing my veil!

     
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    SuzySchmoozy    July 4, 2013   New Hampshire

    @KelliP:

    I had no intentions of wearing a veil until you posted this link...I looove that style...now I want one!

     
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    nyebee68    December 31, 2011  

    I am not wearing a veil.  I will be wearing a beaded headband.  Wear whatever you like....it's your day!

     
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    brooke_pa    March 31, 2014   new castle,Pa

    I'm wearing a bridal headband and an ivory elbow length veil low on the back of my head.  My mom tried to ask me if I thought it was appropriate, so I told her "I'm not concerned with appropriate!, Does it look pretty?" LOL

     

     

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