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Are engagement parties in lieu of a bridal shower?

posted 2 years ago in Parties
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    mrs bonez    April 30, 2011  

    Just curious. I haven't had an engagement party for myself nor do I plan on it. But they appear to be gaining in popularity and I have gotten invited to one. So I'm wondering if it necessitates a gift similar to a shower? Or will there likely be a bridal shower later on. Help confused by all these parties and the gift giving etiquette that goes with them!  

     
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    WendyS328    February 11, 2011   Saint Louis,MO

    You know...I'm not quite sure.  I don't think there are gifts involved in just the engagement party, just the shower.  However, I could be COMPLETELY WRONG.

    I don't plan to have an engagement party.  Just seems like more money out of the budget that isn't neccessary for me.

     
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    sahsabahs    June 2011  

    Not in lieu of.  Engagement parties usually occur early on, before a bride would know whether they're receiving a bridal shower.  I think E-parties are gaining in popularity because they're more likely to be for men and women, which is nice.

     
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    mrs bonez    April 30, 2011  

    I guess my question is. If I would typically spend X amount of dollars for the bridal shower gift.. Should I a. Split it and count on the other half given later. 2. Give it all up front. 3. Give nothing for E party and wait for the shower. or 4. try to come up with more money or decline one or both events?

     
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    silly rae    May 14, 2011   St. Louis

    For our engagement party we requested that no one bring gifts. We just wanted a chance to celebrate and for my FI to meet close family friends before the wedding.

     
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    JuneBride_26June2010    June 26, 2010   Indiana (legally married 13-Apr-2009)

    we had an engagement party - but we were engaged 2 years ago...no gifts or anything - just a party where our families met.

    my bridal shower is in april (wedding is in june) - bridal shower is where well - not to sound selfish - but where gifts will expected - but not at the engagement party.

    just my experience. :D

     

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