Post # 1
So a few nights ago I was visiting Jason at work, and it was relatively busy and he was busy talking to some girls from out of town, I don’t have any jealousy issues and he knows where the line is with talking to other girls (and it doesn’t hurt that I heard him say that he has a girlfriend 😉 ).
So I was just hanging out on the other side of the bar when the DJ (he’s the regular DJ and he’s been there for years, and he is usually quite nice to me hugging me and jokingly saying he wants to “steal” me from Jason). Well he starts ‘joking” around about how the girl he was talking to was totally his type (i.e. skinny blonde, super highmaintenance looking, the “never leave the house without full face of makeup on” type girl). and asked if I was getting mad, I said (honestly) no, he’s allowed to talk to other girls, he has a girlfriend and I know he’s coming home to me. The DJ looks at me and says “oh thats what he’s got you thinking?, it’s so cute how gullible you are”… So that pissed me off even if he was kidding, because well HELLO I’ve been cheated on, and trust is a huge thing for me and I ACTUALLY TRUST HIM!
And thats not even all, later he comes up and Jason is busy again (with someone else, the girls left) and he mentioned how “high maintenence isn’t his type anymore” (in reference to the girl, and his ex wife) and I said “I know, he’s dating me, and I am NOT high maintenence”. Then he starts rambling on about how GORGEOUS Jason’s ex wife is and how she “ruined” him so now it doesn’t matter what you look like as long as your not high maintenance your his type!
I took alot of offense to this, I understand that not everyone will think I’m pretty, but do you REALLY have to point it out to me?! And then compare me to his ex wife?! Then try to fix it by saying “but you have a good personality”… Well thank you JERK! That makes me feel great.
Are people really this oblivious to what might hurt someone??!! Rant over. At least Jason was super supportive after I told him what happened. And I guess it doesn’t hurt when complete strangers come up and say how happy your boyfriend is now that your with him, and how good of a person you are and how sweet etc. 🙂 (Honestly his ex wife was a b*tch, and she felt she was too good for everyone, and still does.)
Post # 3
What the heck! Maybe this guy is jealous. (Hey, happens to guys too.) Maybe he does want to steal you away, but realizes that won’t happen, and is now digging at you? Otherwise, it just seems strange on one hand he seems interested enough to say he wants to steal you away, but then says things to make you feel bad. (Perhaps trying to start a fight??) Once I had a bf and his friend liked me,. I could tell he would try to get us into fights. If we had an argument, he would tell me something like, “Don’t let him get away with that.” Then tell my bf “She’s being crazy dragging this on.”
Post # 4
People really are that rude, but I’m not convinced they’re oblivious to it. I think it comes from their insecurities and their desire to create them in others. I’ve had to deal with people like this, I’m not good at brushing it off. But, I do it. I just smile and walk away. That’s what I’d suggest you do if you have to deal with him again. If you show that it bothers you, it only fuels the fire. Its sick that people act like that!
Post # 5
Sounds like he’s just trying to be jerky. You could try my favorite way of deflecting haters in public… I just say, “Jealous?” and give them a wink or a raised eyebrow and walk away. I have nearly gotten beaten up for that! heehee
Post # 6
PS: i desperately want to post a picture of someone I took a picture of after I said “jealous” to them – she grabbed me to pull me in and intimidate me, so i snapped her picture. she was INCREDULOUS and i have the funniest photo ever. I just don’t want to get sued or something, haha. It’s hilarious b/c I am so not a fighter. I’m more of a flower child hippie, but some people are just too easy to rile up to pass up. I say have fun with those clowns and don’t let them bug you.
Post # 8
It sounds like he was interested in you. When you weren’t falling for his advances he stooped to trying to cause trouble between you and your boyfriend. When THAT didn’t work he decided to insult you to try to cover up the fact that he was interested in you.
Post # 10
He’s either 1) jealous of your relationship & was trying in a pathetic way to get you to notice him or 2) just plain stupid & likes to get people riled up.
I think I’m going to vote on #2 🙂
@ Melissa – that is HILARIOUS! You should totally post that!!! hahahaha. Will you teach me your ways, oh wise one?
Post # 11
What an ass. Seriously I’m surprised you didn’t resort to physical violence!
Post # 12
haha thanks for all the comments ladies.
The guy is married with kids, so I don’t think he’s REALLY trying to get with me or hit on me, but I guess he could be jealous of Jason and My relationship (we are pretty awesome if I do say so myself! haha 😉 )
I’ve decided to just ignore him, although Jason really wants to confront him about what he said… But Jason did a great job cheering me up, he always makes me feel so beautiful and like the only girl in the world who matters. And he tells me everyday how much happier and how grateful he is now that I’m in his life. 🙂
Post # 13
That reminds me of pretty in pink when the preppy guy likes the pretty girl, but she totally blows him off (b.c he’s a jerk) and when she starts dating the preppy guys buddy (who is actually nice) The preppy guy starts talking all kinds of crap to his buddy about how she’s nothing blah blah blah. He was totally just jealous. End movie recap. Sounds like the buddy of your man is jealous. Forget him your man is with you for a reason!