Post # 1
only brides who have actually gone through this, please, not guesses!
(the purpose of this being, if people planning their guest list are thinking of having a “B” list, they will be able to plan a little bit more as the rsvp date approaches if lots of guests haven’t replied.)
Post # 3
Almost all of the people we had to chase down have said no. There were a few people who just couldn’t know until the last minute, based on work issues, etc. But, the majority were no’s that just didn’t bother responding. (SO RUDE!)
Post # 4
1/2 of the people we had to chase down were no’s and the other 1/2 thought it was obvious they were coming or didn’t think it was fancy enough to require an actual response. No way to tell.