Are these doubts normal?

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
1131 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Feeling sexually attracted to your spouse is very important. You really need to identify if it is your body image issues holding you back or if it is him. Have you ever felt sexually attracted to any of the men you have been with?

Post # 4
3 posts
  • Wedding: April 2015


DCbee821:  Hello! I think that all women at some point is her worse critic, im sure that you are over reacting and your fiance loves you just the way you are. its sounds like he is a great man and hes a keeper. i think that you two are on the right track with getting in shape together. just keep doing what you are doing and maybe the end results will change your doubts

Post # 5
1766 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Anxiety and depression can diminish your enjoyment of sex and make you question everything in general… it’s normal to feel like you’re not enjoying it as much when you’re stressed and anxious in general. I think working out together is a great idea.. it’ll help your stress levels and help you feel better about yourself in general, which will lead to better sex.

I’m very happily married but the sex with my DH was never as ”amazing” as with some of my previous boyfriends. However he’s such a great guy in every other respect that this isn’t really a big deal. Also, with time it keeps getting better and better. Sometimes it just takes a while of getting to know what the other person likes, etc, and it’s something you can work on.

I wouldn’t overthink it at this point, just give it time.

Post # 6
4878 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Have you considered counseling?  Sexual problems tend to be quite amenable to therapy.

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