Are we doing the wrong thing here?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should We Invite the ex-boyfriend?
    Yes - he got a save the date, he needs to be invited. : (5 votes)
    11 %
    No - they broke up, no etiquette breach in not inviting him. : (30 votes)
    67 %
    No - in terms of etiquette it is wrong, but I still wouldn't invite him. : (10 votes)
    22 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    568 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    it might hurt his feelings. If you dont care about that, then i wouldnt send him one, but that’s just me.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1071 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Greenbrier Country Club

    Nope. Your not. I also don’t think he would want to go…
     

    Post # 5
    Hostess
    7630 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    If you’re not friends with him I wouldn’t invite him. Etiquette says that everyone who gets a STD gets invited but in this case it doesn’t really make sense. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    6200 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    I don’t think you’re obligated to invite him. Just don’t send him an invitation- I doubt he wants go to his ex’s friend’s wedding anyway!

    Post # 7
    Member
    1216 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @missadventure85:  I would say no. I’m sure he will understand and not want to come anyways. I wouldn’t if I were him.

    Post # 8
    Hostess
    8680 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I wouldn’t invite him.

    Post # 9
    Member
    331 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2015

    I wouldn’t think so… That would be so awkward for both him and her! 

    Post # 10
    Member
    2891 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    @missadventure85: If neither of you still talk to the ex, I’m sure it’s fine not to invite him!

    Post # 11
    Member
    202 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    @missadventure85:  I doubt he’d want to go if his only connection was the groomswoman.  Don’t worry about it.

    Post # 13
    Member
    11379 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    unless you hang out together, i doubt he is expecting an invite.

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