Post # 1
Yup, today has been one of those days, I feel like I have been planing forever and basically have….Dec 2012 I started. I told my FI I just want this wedding to be done with. I told him I am sick of asking him to do stuff (he said so don’t…my response “I won’t get my answer or get things done until a week before the wedding if that is the case.”) I am at 101 people if everyone brings guests that “plans” on it so far. I didn’t want to go over 100….I have a lay out for 100 people, I have plates for 100 people, I have wine glasses for 80, it is just becoming a pain in the a$$.
Just want to be over with the wedding and not have to think about what else needs to be done every time I am on days off. My FI soooo owes me for all the work I have done and money I have saved him for doing this all myself. Sometimes I wish I wasn’t so cheap…he could have planned it but then it would have been double the price.
Post # 2
- Wedding: Davis Island Garden Club
I feel like this sometimes too. I just want to get on with it already. Planning can ba a pain in the ass…and I still have 5 months to go!
Post # 3
- Wedding: November 2014 - The Celebration Farm
I don’t like asking my FI to do stuff either. For one thing, I can never ask just once. I usually have to ask about five times before he even considers doing it. I would also be very over the planning process if I were you. That’s a long time to be planning! Hopefully you can just get everything done soon and not have to go back to the planning until the date is closer.
Post # 4
Oh yeah, I know that one. There are 51 days left so I’m constantly going between “Crap! Too much to do still!” and “Why can’t this be over yet?!”
Post # 5
- Wedding: June 2014 - San Francisco, CA
I’ve been planning for less than two months, my FI and I are pretty evenly divided on doing stuff so I do feel supported, but shit. I STILL keep asking myself “Is this over yet? Is it May 2015 yet? I’m SO OVER trying to talk to photographers” or whatever. BLECH! I can’t imagine how much worse it will be in 6 months … at least the outcome will be worth it, right?
Post # 6
I am soooooo over wedding planning also!! Been planning since June ’11 with only 39 days to go….”I can do it, I can do it I can do it” is my newest chant haha. We are getting married July 4th, but I keep telling FH I’m really looking forward to July 5th when everything is over with!