Are you a decisive or an indecisive person?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Which describes you?
    Decisive : (32 votes)
    35 %
    Indecisive : (60 votes)
    65 %
  • Post # 4
    Member
    3389 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @yorkiemad00:  LOL! 

    I can’t make a decision to save my life. it drives my husband mad! Especially when deciding where to eat. I blame my upbringing for this. I was taught to think of everyone else before I thought of myself. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    844 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Totally depends on the situation. If you give me a flash decision to make on the spot I do it and don’t doubt afterward. Give me time to think, though, and I doubt like crazy and ultimately try to back out somehow.

    Post # 7
    Member
    926 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @yorkiemad00:  That was great!

    I am mostly decisive.  FI is mostly indecisive.  This doesn’t typically work out well when I’m ready to make a decision and he can’t when we need to agree/compromise.

    Post # 8
    Member
    3557 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I like to take my time and consider all of my options, but when I do make a decision I am decisive. Take dress shopping for example. I went out and tried on pretty much every silhouette and most of the types of faric, then I picked my dress. I don’t have an ounce of dress regret even though I compare every dress I see to mine; mine always comes out on top because it has everything I was looking for.

    Post # 11
    Member
    8418 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I’m pretty decisive but I think it’s because I don’t really care about making people happy and the fact that I really don’t feel guilt.

    Post # 12
    Member
    5460 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    In general, with big decisions or major things, I’m decisive.  I weigh my options and make a decision and I stick to it.

    However, when it comes down to what brand of trashbag or where to go for dinner… I’m lost!  I waver, change my mind, get overwhelmed, and usually flip a coin or something to make up my mind.  

    So, so strange.

    Post # 13
    Member
    2372 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

    @yorkiemad00:  LOL me too… My first instinct was “well yeah I’m pretty decisive” but then I stopped and was like, “well I did just spend like, an hour and a half in kohls the other day trying to pick out the perfect things… sooo.. maybe not, but maybe yes…”

    and it made me realize if I am indecisive about a question being indecisive… then I’m kind of indecisive!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Post # 14
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    2325 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I am a decisive person mostly, but if it is a decision that affects two people (e.g. What me and my fiancé eat for dinner) then sometimes I will make up my mind myself or I will ask him for his opinion. 

    Post # 16
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    919 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Cory_loves_this_girl:  Here’s an example: I was at the office cafeteria yesterday and we have lots of different stations. There’s hot food, sushi bar, stir fry, salad bar, and a station where you can get sandwiches/burgers/wraps. I kept changing my mind about what I wanted and standing on lines for a few seconds before going somewhere else. i ended up getting a salad. I have a similar problem when I’m at a restaurant.

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