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    Bellagiobride    September 1, 2012   Chicago

    Are you on The Knot as well as the Bee? Why are you on both, and which do you prefer?

    As far as myself, I am on both, but I find the folks on the knot to be rude and unsupportive, but I am asking because maybe that has just my experience. What say you???

     
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    Atalanta    September 3, 2011  

    No i was way to scared to post anything on the knot.

     
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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    No, just a bee.  I don't care for the Knot's boards.  They're too confusning to me anyways.

     
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    7SEVENJ9    September 25, 2010  

    I'm a member of the Knot, but didn't really go to those boards - just read articles and used their checklist. The boards aren't very user friendly (or just plain friendly!), and I just love the Bee!

     
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    jo.lee    September 10, 2011   Indianapolis

    I technically still have an account on the knot, but I haven't posted since I got chewed out for worrying about my friend and I having the same theme. I didn't want to stick around long enough to figure out how to delete my account, so I just deleted my post. I've heard their local boards are great, but mine wasn't active.

     
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    MrsE.ToBe    October 1, 2011   MA

    i have an account on the knot. i like the pics/lists/articles (even though many contradict themselves). as far are the boards, i don't use them. i've looked at them on occasion, but never posted. seems like a lot of people working out wedding frustration or validating what they themselves are doing rather than being open to new ideas & offering helpful suggestions. not always, but a lot of the time people there seem to just be mean & hurtful when they could say their opinion in a much nicer way that wouldn't be cruel to the poster.

     
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    brighteyedgirl    August 31, 2012   Ontario, Canada

    I had an account on TheKnot when FI, and I first got engaged (Dec. '09), but rarely posted. I haven't been back there in ages.. I just don't see the point, as I love the Hive!

     
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    thewheelsonthebus    June 25, 2011  

    I only use the Knot for photo inspiration, more for brides I work with than myself.  The boards there are confusing and really unfriendly I think.

     
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    chittychittybanebane    October 22, 2011  

    used to be a knottie, but after seeing how rude most of the girls are, I came here! (super glad I did)

     
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    peaches13    July 9, 2011   Texas

    I only use The Knot for the checklist and personal website.  I visit once a week, if that.

     
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    ellabee    July 3, 2011   Virginia

    @Bellagiobride:I'm both, and i've come to realize that the *tone* is very different on the knot. It's just... if you read it the right way you still get the feedback you need. But for me, I feel like I almost have to "translate," and it's tougher for me.

    I hate their inspiration stuff, but I loved it when I was "waiting."

    I love the DIY and forum on the bee--like everything about them.

     

    I like the ease of building your own website on the knot.

     

    And for a lot of stuff--I prefer to go to family and/or spreadsheets to keep track of stuff, plan and generally not go insane.

     
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    organizedbride11    November 11, 2011   Illinois

    I have a knot account still. I like to see how many days till I marry my man, and I like the checklist, but I dont post on the boards, I find the woman rude, I used to post before I found the bee, I was fed up with the girls and wanted to find somewhere else to be. Im so glad I found the bee!!

     
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    couawilou    October 20, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    I have an account with the Knot but haven't used it. I can't post anything, I mean I can post stuff but no one can actually see my posts, I have contacted them and got very rude ppl answering back. So I still have it active because I like to read the arcticles that they have and their videos.

    I love the Bee, I'm soo glad I'm here, I can talk with you ladies, I get feedback from you, you can actually see my posts!!! lol... I love being inspired by you and share with you.

     
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    Miss. Meeps    May 11, 2012   Pittsburgh

    I use the knot for the planner, budget, and guest list. I hate the format of the forum.

    I come to the bee for forum use.

     
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    coffeegal85    August 11, 2012   Ohio

    I created an account on the knot right after FI and I got engaged, but hardly ever visit.  Actually, I only visit, whenever the bee is down.  The bee is soo much better and user friendly!

     
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    sdrury89    March 10, 2012   Houston, TX

    I have an account on the knot, but only use it for the check list and some photo inspiration. Oh, and sometimes when I need a snark fix, I'll go read a couple boards. I usually read 2 or 3 and then come running back to the bee!

     
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    MrsShayona    October 2, 2011   Kokomo, IN

    I go on there for my website and budget but thats about it. I love it here!

     
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    Jeannine @ Small Chic    June 1, 2012   Virginia

    Both.

     

    My month and local boards are better on The Knot.

    I like the layout of the Bee better (and the ability to post a picture that's larger than a postage stamp), so I spend more time here.

     

     

     
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    .twist.    October 7, 2011   Alberta, Canada

    Both!

    I use the Knot for the checklist and photo inspiration. I read the articles from time to time when one catches my eye. Sometimes they're useful, sometimes they make me laugh. I have never, and will never use their forums.

    I LOVE every part of the Bee. It's much more user friendly (and generally friendlier), and I feel like it's a closer knit community, rather than a bunch of snarky strangers.

     
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    panterapeach    April 2011  

    I have a knot user name.

    I have never posted on there and I probably never will.  I joined TK and at the same time I found the bee.  Since finding the bee I haven't been back and I have no plans to visit.

    I heart the bee.

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    I'm a member of the Knot, but I don't post on the boards. I look at the local boards because they are more active than the ones of here. That's it. I try to make it past the home screen without crashing my computer all the time.

     
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    Crisark    November 5, 2011   WV

    I am on both but don't post on the Knot's boards cause the ladies there aren't as nice as they are here on the Bee. I just use the Knot's checklist and countdown thingy.

     
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    Mrs.LilyLunaLove    July 7, 2012   Midwest

    I use the knot for the picture gallerys and free website. I don't look at the boards or comment. I do not like the set up there at all and my local boards aren't updated very much so no help there either. Bee all the way! :)

     
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    ms.oregon.state    September 29, 2012   oregon

    I think I have an account on ALL the sites =) knot, brides, WC, etc.... but the BEE is the only place I actually post and chat. Everywhere else is just non supportive and fake. I just want access to all the pics and articles.

     
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    BrooklynBride10    October 9, 2010   nyc

    I was on both while I was planning.  The Oct 2010 knot board was awesome, as was our local board, and I've formed amazing friendships with many of the girls there.  Those two were the only Knot boards I really posted on.  Now that we've graduated to the Nest, our club board sucks, so I'm posting here more, while lurking on a few other Nest boards.  I appreciate honesty and differing opinions though, and I never thought any of the people I interacted with on a regular basis were rude.  I know the people on the national boards can be a tougher crowd though.  I actually think the Nest club boards are a little too sugar coated and fake.  Weddingbee has a much better crowd of people. :)

     
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    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    I do have an account. I haven't posted on their boards in months, but our wedding website is through them and I like their budget and checklist features. Like others are saying, their boards just aren't for me. Obviously I like the boards here a lot better. :)

     
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    regberadaisy    August 14, 2010  

    @Jeannine @ Small Chic:

    Exactly. The month boards and local boards are much better on the knot because you reach a bigger group of girls. And actually all the girls who were on my month and local boards are very nice. But I hardly ever went to the other specialized boards.

    Months into my engagement it became too hard to maintain a "relationship" on both so I came here more for general planning advice.

    I personally think there are plenty nice girls on the knot and plenty girls on here as well that can get nasty and vice versa!

     
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    VegasSukie    July 7, 2012   Montego Bay, Jamaica

    I still have an account but stopped posting after I was reamed for asking about having our dog at our destination wedding.  Now I just post here and feel more comfortable here so far.

     
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    joy2011    October 22, 2011   NE Ohio

    Both. I spend waaaay more time here, and I just go to TK for one of the special-interest boards, which is much more active than the equivalent board here. And I like it here overall much better!

     

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