- 3 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
We both want kids, but we’re differing on how many! We’re aiming to try (haha) in the next year or so…
Yes. We both never want any.
I wanted to adopt, he wanted to have his own. I agreed to have them with him, I don’t think any other man could have convinced me to carry and deliver children.
We were both on the same page wanting two children as well as for our timeline for having them.
My husband and I are both in agreement that we’re not kid people. It works out perfectly!
i always said three, he always said two… lately i’m thinking two is enough because we have zero kids and i’m already tired. haha. i used to watch to start immediately after the wedding but now that that’s here… i’m okay with waiting a while 🙂
We both have a son each from previous relationships. I think he would be happy with none. I was upfront from the beginning of becoming serious that I def want more. We have pretty much compromised with another one but not for another 3-4 years. I couldn’t not be on the same page about important issues like that, it would hang over me.
We both want 2, and we would like to conceive #2 when #1 is a year or so old. So we are on the same page that way. I would like to start in 2 years or so, DH wants to start in 2 months since he is older. We will probably start trying this spring.
No babies for us.
I wasn’t really sure how to vote… we didn’t start out on the same page regarding kids. I wasn’t 100% sure I wanted kids, and if I did, I only wanted 1. My FI is totally sure he wants kids, and wants to have two. I’ve come around on having kids, so we’re on the same page there, but there’s still a part of me that thinks life would be a lot easier if we stopped after 1… but I figure that’s not something we need to decide right away. After we pop one out, we’ll probably know if we want another or not! I think we’re both open to discussing changing our opinions.
I also really want a daughter… so if our first kid is a son, it’ll probably be a lot easier to convince me to keep going 🙂
No kids here thank you! He was there when I got my tubes tied, so I know he’s on board too.
@butterfliesandhoney: We both want some but we differ on how many. I would love to have 6 and he doesn’t want anymore than 2-3. I come from a big Italian family and I love it while he comes from a very small one. Though our biggest disagreement is on the names lol.
We both want to wait awhile – when I am 30 I think we will start. We disagree with the number of kids, though – I want 3 and he wants 2. He also wants all boys and I want at least one of each, but there is no way either of us can control that!
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