(Closed) are you comfortable with your FI …….

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

DH had a talk about this after we got engaged and moved in together. We’re both perfectly comfortable being naked around each other, but we try not to be unless we’re having sex or it’s unavoidable. The reason is because we figure we have a good 60 years with each other, and we want to be able to make that bit of excitement and mystery last. I don’t want him seeing my full body to be just a common experience that he gets used to or tired of, and same goes for him. It’s worked so far! He’s like kid in a candy store excited when he gets to see me fully naked, and I love that. We also don’t use the bathroom in front of each other for this reason…gotta keep that mystery 🙂

 

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We’re very comfortable around one another now, but in the beginning I felt very awkward.

Eventually I realized that he didn’t see any of the “problem areas” I see when I look in the mirror. I guess it was a matter of me becoming more comfortable with myself.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

As far as I remember, we’ve never had any issues with being naked around each other. We used to spend quite a bit of time in our respective dorm rooms naked (one time, his creepy roommate came in while I was still in bed, so to get him to leave, my SO played video games completely naked. His roommate left soon after haha)

Now that we live together in our own apartment, we spend quite a bit of time naked because we’re lazy. Like going in and out of the shower, finding clothing, whatever, we don’t tend to just be naked to be naked.

I don’t think my SO will ever get sick of looking at me naked, no matter how many times we see each other. And I know I won’t get sick of him! 

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2018

We are perfectly comfortable being naked around each other, and when we have his place or mine to ourselves (we each live with our parents) we walk around naked. But when we do live together we won’t be naked all the time, we will probably wear clothes unless we are about to go to bed or just got up from bed.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

haha. Just today I took a shower (wrapped my hair in the towel) and went into the living room/kitchen area naked while I waited for my hair to dry a bit. I think my husband loves it when I tease him like that sometimes ; )

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I’m not sure, I don’t have a problem with him seeing me naked but I don’t like to be naked. I get really cold, it feels weird, and I just prefer wearing clothes.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I was perfectly comfortable with DH the moment I met him.  🙂  He made me feel right at home whether I was silly, naked, or both.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Lol im naked aobut  75% im iin the house. To the point I’m a little annoyed when I have to put on clothes to leave the house, or if someone is coming over. He’s very comfortable being naked around me too. 

I never thought about staying clothed to try to save excitement. I might have to give it a try. If I/he can stand it lol. Im curious to see if it helps to make it more exciting. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

We’re pretty open about going in and out of the shower/showering with the door open but I don’t think we send a lot of time running around the house naked. However, we do spend a lot of time in our underwear, especially on lazy weekends.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I used to be. But he saw me in labour and now I’m like WOO LOOK AT THIS walking through the house. SO probably isn’t as comfortable as I am…but maybe because everytime he’s naked I giggle or poke him in inappropriate places. 

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I am very comfortable with my gorgeous man! After the birth of our babies I was a little aprehensive about  being naked in front of him. This was because I was still adjustint to my post baby body… it certainly wasnt the same as before!! And probably after I finished breast feeding my first child. they suddenly went from full rounded perky DD’s to flat saggy sacks.  He still thought I looked beautiful and because of his undeterred attraction to me and my changed body, I grew to feel comfortable with being naked infront of him again. 

I am still bfeeding our baby girl, Ill probably have to start thinking of weaning her in the next few months… (she is 11months now and I am starting to want my body back)… so it will be a hello to even saggier flatter boobys. This time round Im not so worried about it. Ive got used of the fact that my girls are no longer 11/10’s and thats ok because they have sustained life twice now and for alot longer than most women! So for that I am going to love my body more!

If anything though, Fi is less comfortable than I am. I think that has to do with the fact that he is carrying more weight than he would like.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee

Yeah, but I love being naked in general. I’m naked right now lol. He loves my body and I love it 99% of the time… plus if I’m naked, so is he 😉

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

I will usually walk around bottom less or naked on my way to the shower. After the shower I’ll walk around in a towel until I get dressed. I am not completely happy with how my body looks so I’m not about walking around completely in the buff. SO did mention last night that he thinks I’m sexy and beautiful and that was really nice to hear!

As for SO he’s 6’4″ & 165 lbs. I think due to his gangliness (is that a word?), he feels most comfortable in a white tee, socks, & sweats. He will sleep in a white tee, boxers and socks.

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Haaa yep. As long as the temperature is good. But I don’t like to sit on the sofa naked (something weirds me out about it) so I only hang around like that on the floor or in bed. I feel totally comfortable with nudity… he’s comfortable with ME being naked but doesn’t like to hang around naked himself unless there’s something in it for him, as it were. 

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